This is probably true, your husband may be having an affair but if you want to stay with him, don't question him and act as if he's a bad person, yes having an affair is a big deal and wrong; so if you really don't love him, get a divorce but if you still have hope bet the best spouse ever to make him come back to you.
That is something you will have to ask him.
Close Emotional Friend
When a neighbor's husband is cheating sometimes it is better to let her find out on her own. It is common when a friend tells a woman her husband is cheating that she will verbally attack the friend rather than to believe her husband is cheating. She also may well be suspicious of her husband cheating on her and it is their private war.
Maybe. Depends on how observant they are and if he brags. ANSWER: That will be hard to predict. If your husband's friend knows you to, it will be dangerous for your husband to confide to his friend, let alone be seen by him. But there are some married man's friend who knows but not with much details. If this happens, your husband's friend will be avoiding him.
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
because she's not a good friend
The way to find out the truth regarding your husband's female friend is by facing and asking him. If he goes red in the face; won't look you in the eyes; moves from foot to foot; protests too much; goes into another room or leaves the house on you then his so called friend is probably telling the truth because he is probably cheating with her.
You don't; if you love your husband just stop cheating; if you don't love you husband, tell him you don't love him and file for a divorce.
You did not state in your questions if you were separated or divorced from your husband or he was cheating on you. If you are separated or divorced then tell your children the truth. You might say something like 'your daddy and I love each other but sometimes people just can't live together because they argue too much.' Assure your children that they are not the cause of the breakup between you and your husband because often children will think they weren't being good enough and drove their father away. If he is cheating then tell them it was a friend of their daddy's and then deal with your husband.
A wise person never puts something in writing in this case as it can come back to haunt them. Although this is your friend you do not know the whole circumstances. It would better to phone her and discuss the situation, but be very sure that her husband is truly cheating and you are not second guessing the situation because this may well end their marriage.
No, Husband is not just friends, But You Can treat husband as a friend.And That's Something You MUST treasure!
Getting offensive towards a cheating husband does not resolve the problem. If it is the wife that has caught him cheating then she can give him two choices .. seek marriage counseling and stop seeing whomever he is seeing or she will file for divorce. If it's a relative or a friend then they should talk to the husband and tell him that he has a week to come clean with his wife or you will say something, but it would be wise to also let him know others know about his cheating just in case he may seek revenge of his own to keep that person quiet.