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If you cheated on him the first day,you need to come clean. Whether you "knew" him or not its still cheating and its still wrong. You were in the wrong first. That doesn't mean that he should have cheated on you but you did so first. So of course, if someone cheats on you,you would have to give it serious thought to stay with them after you find out. Just keep in mind though, that he may now have some serious trust issues, too. First of all, if you "cheated" on him the first day you went out, when you barely knew him, how can that even be considered cheating? On the other hand, if the two of you were in a committed relationship for two months when he cheated on you, then you have to decide if the relationship is worth working on or not. If so, then you need to be honest with him and tell him that you were with someone else on the same day you and he had your first date. Also, if you do decide the relationship is worth trying to save, you need to decide to forgive him, and then start from there. And keep in mind, he will have the right to make the same decision as far as the trust issue, as well. But if you both decide to try to make it work, then you are not wrong for doing so. A mistake is one thing, a way of life is another. If he made a mistake and is truly sorry, then that is not the same as him making cheating a way of life. Trust is a two-way issue; it has to be earned, but it also has to be respected.

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Q: My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months into the relationship but I cheated on him the first day we went out when I barely knew him should I break up with him or stay with him when I can't trust him?
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