When he's not there, take your pet, and leave. Look for a police station, and have them direct you to a safe house. leave while he goes to the store and pack up all your stuff and leave and if it is your house pack up all his stuff and put it in the middle of the street andlock all your doors and if he trys to get in call the police and make sure your friends are with you to have witnesses.
smacking people hahhahahahaaa
Don't be an idiot. Leave. Now.
I guess the real question is why are you still talking to an ex boyfriend who was emotionally abusive? You can tell him anything you want, but it won't change him. The best thing to do is to figure out why you were attracted to someone who abused you and cheated on you. A therapist or counselor can probably help you sort it out. Do it NOW...before you marry someone like him and have his children....then you will just continue the cycle.
This is the way they work, they start off being nice to work there way into your heart then when they have you the way they want you they slowly work through being abusive to control you
to control you. abusers want total control
LEAVE!!
quietly do not let him know you are leaving. An abusive husband is a very common and serious problem. if you have plans to move in with your ex boyfriend then do it secretly make sure he is asleep or at least an hour or 2 away. if you receive threats do not answer he will find you. if he threatens you again go to the police it is no longer a small enough problem, CALL THE POLICE!!!
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
you must get out of abusive relationships. Boyfriend must never be abusive !
Get rid of the spouse, or move away...
KC
Divorce him and if he threatens or attacks you, then call the police