Hold on: Your ex-N(?) wouldn't include you in anything he was doing. He didn't spend much time with you. He was told that this is normal for an N. His girlfriend, for the past two years, he is at her beck n call. Is this odd for a narcissist? I'd be happy to answer the question if I understood what you're saying. If you wouldn't mind entering the question again...?
cheating is doing anything you wouldnt want your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend to know about
In doing what you have to your paying attention to them as they are so into themselves they love that attention as well as they don't prefer to do anything unless it has something in it for them or to do with them.
IF WE DIDNT KNOW ANYTHING WE WOULD BE DUMB nd doing bad things that god wouldnt want us to do
Its possible, but i wouldnt suggest doing it...
well if its with curling iron i'd say definantly as long as your hair is dry and you know what your doing. But, i really wouldnt do anything to it right after coloring it though.
scientists work because, if they didnt then we wouldnt know anything about our earth, plants, our body, humans, animals etc. they work because, they want to earn a living but out of doing it for something they like. if we didnt have science we wouldnt know everything that we know today about us, and how we ivolved.
OF COURSE! Mines is doing that now. They'd do anything to make themselves look like the saint. That is classic narcissist behavior. You have to be pretty careful in knowing who your friends are and who the narcissist has gotten to. I hate to say it but in order to figure out what the narcissist is up to, you have to think like a narcissist. Of course that makes you look bad, like you ARE a narcissist (you've probably picked up some narcissist behaviors being around one anyway) so BE CAREFUL. My narcissist called this game "Ex Caliber" after King Arthur's sword. He said people who were pure and of good intentions could slip past his defenses. Translation: You better make yourself look better than the narcissist and dodge the mud he's flinging if you want to keep your friends!
the rocket wouldnt fly
No. Stay away from narcissists. They are not truly focussed on anything you did, bad or good. They are focussed only on what they want--and what they want is to be the center of attention at any price. It is very unlikely that you, or anyone else, created an unforgivable injury to a narcissist. At the same time, it is very likely that that narcissist will use anything you did, good, bad or indifferent, to manipulate you into doing more of whatever it is that he or she wants. Don't fall into it. Think of Admiral Ackbar: It's a trap! For real.
I WOULDNT ADVISE DOING THAT.
Narcissists are tricky, and I've done a lot of research on this subject. Manipulating a narcissist isn't really that hard. You can smother the narcissist in compliments, you can intimidate them with something they fear, believe me it works.
Since she is not your real mother, I wouldnt consider doing anything big. Unless she has been there and took care of you since young age. I would consider a small gift like chocolates and flowers. Or some kind of jewelry.