No - except in some states.I assume you now now have a divorce problem. Get a lawyer's opinoin in your state.
In most states, under the doctrine of "Election", the wife could file a claim in the husband's estate and receive a share of the value of the property. It is unclear what you mean by joint equitable owners.
No you are not entitled to it , as it is his pension.
It depends on a number of factors: Are you listed in the will? If not, you probably are not entitled to anything. If you husband has passed away, and he had children with you, you may be entitled to some of it in trust for the children. If your husband is living, no, the inheritance belongs to him.
NO
It may depend on where you live as the laws vary from state to state. For example, in Florida it is assumed that the date upon which the petition is filed is the date to work with to divide funds and other assets but if the court finds it more equitable to apply the date he left, they will do that. HOWEVER, you may be entitled to alimony, depending on your circumstances and are entitled to child support if you have minor children. To that extent, you are entitled to part of your husband's current and future income. Note you do not have to be divorced, at least in Florida, to get child support.
The husband gets the house.
NC is not a community property state. Assets would be divided in an equitable manner.
* She is entitled to have of his retirement, and depending if children are involved she may be entitled to more. Please go to this link (by State): http://www.divorcesource.com/research/edj/cases/military.shtml
What you receive depends on the state in which you live. You could be entitled to everything or you could be entitled to half of all marriage assets.
This will depend on the laws in the jurisdiction in which the divorce is taking place. However, in many jurisdictions such as in New Jersey, property is divided according to a concept called "equitable distribution". This means that in the divorce action the court will look at the marital property and the history of the marriage and divide the property so that it is equitable to both parties. The major factor is the roles each spouse played in the marriage in acquiring the marital property. A woman who was the housewife of the husband who brought in all the money will still be entitled equitable distribution since her contributions to the marriage as a housewife were just as important as his as the main earner.
That's up to the courts to decide.
It can be fraudulent "Where jointly-held property is transferred for the purpose of defrauding creditors, the transferor may not then share in the value of the transferred asset for purposes of equitable distribution". Consult legal counsel for more information.