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Should children come before or after marriage?

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Answered 2011-11-07 04:03:32

will for my view if you guys love each and you are pregnant and you are getting married for sure it dont matter if the baby comes before the marriege but you should make sure you that you are getting married before thinking about a kid you dont wanna have kid and then have your men leave you hanging cause then he dont want the kid but it dont reallyy matter cause if you love each for real then it dont matter what comes first


Well i believe you should be married and have a good job and have all your priority's straightened out before you decide to have a family

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