The best revenge is dumping your bf and moving on with your life. Their own stupid actions will screw up their lives for them.AnswerWhat's to be gained in confronting her? The problem in between you and your partner. She was just a tool he used to express his insecurity and direspect. She may not have even known he was spoken for.
Every woman in this situation wasnt to express their anger at being hurt so badly, and the "other woman" is an obvious choice. However, it usually ends up causing more trouble than not. She could have been anybody; concentrate your efforts on your partner and what healing might be done.
Having unknowingly been the other woman several times as well as the person cheated on, and knowing several who have had their lives ruined by such a situation, i wholeheartedly say NOOO! The relationship is between you and your partner, as above, she is indeed just as much of a victim sometimes of getting involved with a man who is already spoken for. He is the one who has broken your trust and disrespected you.
The only exception to this rule is if the other woman is a friend of yours. In that situation all bets are off and you should feel it is appropriate to say something.
OF CORSE! dont let him cheat on her any longer. go ahead and tell her ;]
No, it is not a good idea to meet the woman your boyfriend cheated with. It is your boyfriend who either instigated cheating or he was talked into dating by the other girl and he could have formed the word 'no' and this makes him 100% responsible for cheating on you. Let your boyfriend know you do not put up with cheating and refuse to share any boyfriend with another woman. If he doesn't take the hint then get rid of him.
Sure does. She did it and she knew she was doing it, no matter if drunk or not.
hickey ? well if so dump him . if he has a relationship out of a relationship he cheated . it takes two people to do most of the sexual things
only if you want more conflict. walk away from both of them, show them no worries on your end. if he loves and wants to reconcile he'll run back pleeing for forgiveness. Then you just toy with his emotions for awhile and if that's what you want back then you can decide it. But don't let them destroy you
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No. Snitches lie in ditches.
You can but that might start problems but you could let her know that what she did was not right (if she knew about you)
im my experience, no it is not healthy. there is already an attraction there that was uncovered and the chance of that being revisited is very high. every time I've seen this situation, the relationship ends because the boyfriend eventually cheats with the same woman again or just leaves his girlfriend for that woman.
You are going to have to confront him with it sooner or later. it is not bound to go away by itself. The question is-did he do anything inappropriate & if so can you still trust or have enough invested in your relationship to try.
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO....did I meation NO!!
Your boyfriend is ego maniacal and selfish! He cheated on his ex and she hit the bottom of the barrel along with him by cheating on him. This is not a way to resolve such problems. Your boyfriend has had things his way far too long and you have the power to control this situation. Talk to your boyfriend and communicate to him that you will not put up with cheating like his ex had to put up with it and if he continues you will end the relationship. If you don't ask for respect or show you are your own woman then you can't expect others to respect you. He isn't the only fish in the sea. You deserve better!