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AnswerI don't blame you for wanting some kind of revenge on your boyfriend and this woman, but is showing your hurt and anger to these two publicly going to make you feel better in the long run? Are either of them really worth the trouble, especially if things get physical or the police get involved?

The best revenge is dumping your bf and moving on with your life. Their own stupid actions will screw up their lives for them.

AnswerWhat's to be gained in confronting her? The problem in between you and your partner. She was just a tool he used to express his insecurity and direspect. She may not have even known he was spoken for.

Every woman in this situation wasnt to express their anger at being hurt so badly, and the "other woman" is an obvious choice. However, it usually ends up causing more trouble than not. She could have been anybody; concentrate your efforts on your partner and what healing might be done.


Having unknowingly been the other woman several times as well as the person cheated on, and knowing several who have had their lives ruined by such a situation, i wholeheartedly say NOOO! The relationship is between you and your partner, as above, she is indeed just as much of a victim sometimes of getting involved with a man who is already spoken for. He is the one who has broken your trust and disrespected you.

The only exception to this rule is if the other woman is a friend of yours. In that situation all bets are off and you should feel it is appropriate to say something.

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