Should you give an abusive boyfriend another chance if you still love him very much but do not want to get hurt again?

Answer 1

Take it from me and every other girl behind me who has been abuse. the guy that u are dating is a jack*** ounce he hits he will always hit you. In my case he got worse rapped and beat me up while i was pregnant. and did much more. after i had her i felt the same way you are feeling and once again he rapped me. Talking to guys is not cheating, because i most definatly garantee that everytime u leav he's cheating(i mean sleeping this time). i have never felt so humiliated in my life. It also affected me religious wise. he was always trying to say just like you that i was cheating on him, and would hit me when the response was no along with a punch in the face. Because he felt so guilty about the way he treated me. that he wanted to turn some blame on me. he has cheated on me five times that he has told me about(and probably somemore). Now my kid is involved because everyday im always thinking that he will come nd take her from me and do the things that he did to me to her. I don't even trust guys anymore. although tis situation is servere ive dealt with so much verbal abuse from guys. I refuse to trust and i have every reason backing me up. All guys are jacka**'s don't trust them and especially dun sleep with them until they marry you. Once a guy can marry you then it's a swarn agreement to be with you. Sleeping with a man releases a special hormon that permantly atracts the female to the male,it is also the same hormon that is released while breast feeding(it's wat bonds mother and child). These guys who want have a girlfriend will never be the real deal. Never pursue him to marriage, he is the one who is supposed to do it. And who knows he might a history of doing this to other females like mine did. Having a boyfriend is not a promise it's jus a way for a guy to manipulate a girl into sleeping with him.