Should you stay with someone if you don't love them anymore for the kids?

Answer 1

Wow, tough sitch, uhm...wow I would definitley say to talk to your spouse and work it out. He/she might not know that you don't love them anymore, so let them down easy. But you definetly need to talk to her/him about this subject. (I'm not gonna say a definit yes or no, then you might sue me.)

Answer 2

This is in high debate. Some people think you should stay together because of the kids and some say no. I am one that would say no. When two people fall out of love both of them are miserable and you can't hide your feelings forever and the kids will catch on that something is wrong sooner or later. The kids already have peer pressure and then they have more pressure realizing their parents could be heading for divorce. Many couples stick it out and once the last child is out of the house they split up and go their separate ways. If both of you are unhappy sit down and talk it out like adults and decide how you are going to split the visitation rights with your kids. Too often the parents are too embroiled in their own feelings to see how much they are hurting the kids. If you both really want to get a divorce then talk it out, sit down with your kids (if they are old enough to understand) and try to deal with this mess in a mature and friendly manner. It's possible to do it this manner.