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I was in a marriage and had a child with a man that I really didn't love, but our parents basically pushed me into it, because I loved someone else and my parents didn't approve. I can tell you from experience that holding onto that love for someone else will not help your marriage. The "what ifs" need to stop. I'm guessing there's a reason you didn't marry the other guy. Someone once told me that if the relationship had potholes in it-- there's no need to go back down that road, because the potholes will still be there. What I'm saying is let go of the past(if you try to make a elationship with the other guy it won't work anyway--you're not the same and neither is he) and try to enjoy your marriage and your family. I wish I had tried harder for my children and my marriage.

You should keep it to yourself. There had to be a reason you didn't marry him in the first place. You can't go back to what was when your life has changed. If this man still has feelings for you, why didn't he propose in the first place?

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