It's not uncommon for men to do this. Men aren't a lot like women in the sense of communicating with his friends (women often complain to their girlfriends). Most men don't have female friends for a reason (how would you like him confiding in a woman friend) and so, he has to let off steam somewhere so he goes to his family. This means one thing ... you two aren't communicating and YOU NEED TOO!
Sounds like both of you are extremely stubborn and won't sit down like two adults and discuss CALMLY what the problem is and try to meet half way. If you master that then he won't have to run off to his family to express his feelings.
Just because he goes to his family doesn't mean some of those family members (especially the women) won't stick up for you if your man is wrong. Example:
Last year my brother's wife was so upset that he didn't help her dicipline their two teenage sons (made her out to be the bad guy in front of her two sons) that she flew out of the house and drove around because she was frustrated and felt trapped. Thankfully, she had the sense to call me (her sister-in-law.) We have always gotten along and so of course I invited her to come over. She was in tears and upset and frustrated and she ended up staying 4 days. My husband was a dear and kept out of it and went to the den, while I listened to my sister-in-laws problems, and yes, my brother was part of those problems. I phoned my brother to tell him his wife was here and safe and I said no more. Of course he was grateful. Then when she went in to have a bath I phoned him on my cell and we had a little chat. He admitted he could be doing more helping to raise the two teenage boys. That 4 days worked magic and when she got home they sat down and communicated (as I had asked them to do) and came to a good understanding. Oh yes, they have the odd argument off and on, but nothing like it was before and my brother has since started to put some effort into raising their boys.
So, pick an evening, sit down with your man and talk calmly. Don't rush in blaming him for this and that, but tell him how you feel inside. Then you LISTEN to how he feels. Most of the problems in this world is because people don't listen!
I know there will be people who will tell you to mind your own business, but we're talking about family here, and in my opinion, family is always your business. I think you should tell your sister. Friends will come and go, but family is for life.
You should tell your family how you feel. If that doesn't work then yeah you should associate with friends etc.
To tell your family and friends you are involved in a secret association sit them down and talk openly and honestly.
Whenever the person is ready to tell people.
If you trust that your friends will not tell anybody, then go for it!
you should probably drop hints about it. if that doesnt work, tell them that if they were true friends they would tell you
if they are real friends just tell them and they should believe you.
You should try and be friends with everyone. But you will have to tell me what is going on and how bad it is.
yes. you should.
if you trust your friends, you should. if your friends have told a secret of yours before than I wouldn't.
You should tell them.
Well I have a secret love and I keep it away from my family but I tell my friends. I think you should tell the person you love though. Then if you are luckey, you might find out that they love you!
You should tell friends of yours that you are absolutely positive you can trust. If you arent careful u could end up in the spotlight!
No. Not unless you don't want to keep friends.
go to their profile and to the right it should tell you
bestfriends should tell each otha everything
Just come straight out with it. It may be hard at first, but in the end, you won't regret it. (you will if the 'friends' you're talking about don't accept you) TELL YOUR FAMILY FIRST!!!
If she is a true friend, you should not tell her husband that she is cheating. You should do everything you can to help her keep it a secret from her husband, including lying for her. Real friends are a rarity.
Well you should tell your friends cousin or tell you friend 2 tell his or her cousin because i went throught this 2 but it was my friends sister and it worked out pretty well.
you should tell your friends after you have told your parents so they don't go back and tell your parents before u do.
You should tell him you should be friends. Then later on, it might lead up to a relationship.
Simpley tell family first and then closest friends
yes they should do that. It is a customary way of introduction.
Yes. Normally you should tell a close friend.