hey, I've been in your EXACT situation. I actually dealt with it recnetly, and I hope this helps, because it worked out for me. I was never good with speaking my mind, so I wrote a letter, if you could call it that. Just write to her about how these feelings make you feel and about any possible guilt and all of that. Make as many copies as you feel you need to, then save them all (you might want to type it, both to keep a copy for yourself, and so she'll be able to read it better) Anything finished, or something that's strong and gets the point across, staple together. Then put it all in an envelope. Then give it to her when you'll know she'll be alone for some time. Like if you know she's going home to do homework, and that she won't be with friends, slip it in her bookbag. Just let it all out and she'll understand. And try to be careful to jurt her feeling; you will hurt them regardless, but only because she feels guilty that she doesn't like you.
If you need more help with this, just message me
J.J.
try to become friends with the other person too
no he doesnt hate her they are actually friends and he thinks she's a "cool girl"
I'm going to say no. but you could follow him on twitter.
Yes of course who doesnt have friends?
his friends wont understand him
That doesnt necessarily mean he likes you. You guys could actually be best friends or he could be flirting. Just ask him about it.
No it doesnt in any way you look at it it doesnt
It means yall are friends. It also means he's wack for being a stupid a** that doesnt want you as a friend but still does friend stuff and you're wack for wanting to be friends with someone who doesnt want to be friends with you. so maybe its a perfect friendship.
Well either she doesnt like you or she doesnt want to admit to her friends that she likes you. Try talking to her away from her friends. If she is really friendly she does like you. If she is distant or tries to get away from you fast then you know she doesnt like you.
say it just doen't feel right you dating and you just wanna be freinds Well from my experience sometimes that doesnt always work... So what i would do is tell them that it doesnt feel right but you still want to be friends and if she doesnt talk to you start talking to her and make her realize that you still care about her and that you actually do want to still be friends with her and that you just werent saying it to make it seem less harsh
it doesnt
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