To start a conversation, it's easier the more questions you ask her. But there is a difference between seeming interested and bombarding her with questions. Also, personal questions probably aren't the best; she doesn't want to be asked how many guys she has been with or what she's "done".
Usually if there is good connection between you and this girl there shouldn't be a problem talking to her. Just start with a simple and smooth, "hey, whats up?" and try to be calm. If you are nervous, that will make her nervous. Girls are not as hard to talk to as you think. It usually seems like because of what you've previously learned or heard.
Girls really appreciate a guy that isn't afraid to walk up to you and make the first move. I don't mean walk up to her randomly and ask her out, just don't be afraid to talk to her. When you think she is more comfortable around you, look for the opportunity when she is alone or pull her aside from her group of friends. And remember, if she turns you down, its not the end of the world. there's plenty more prey where she came from! ;)
Another very important tip is WATCH HOW YOU SMELL! I always notice a guy when he smells nice. I also hate it when you can smell a guy from across the room so don't drench it!
Hope this helps! let me know if you end up going out with her! XD
Mainly just listen to her and understand her.
You can also play a game called Truth (Like Truth or Dare, but no dares)
You can also just ask her LOTS of questions about herself (favorite color, animal, food, bands/singer, etc. what she did last night, her plans for the weekend, what profession she wants to have, etc.)
And when a girl say whats up, or watcha doin, etc. DO NOTsay "nothing"
and do not ever just say "lol"!!! Comment on what she said.
Start and continue conversations.
(I know this sounds stupid, but...) Pretend like you are a girl when you talk to her.
Always give her compliments!
Just talk to her about her day. Ask how's she's doin and if there is anything she wants to talk about. Be short and sweet with your messages. Don't push into doing things she doesn't seem comfortable with. And don't keep asking about the same thing over and over again.
That works with me on my girl. U should try it
Start with giving them a cute compliment about their hair or outfit. Ask what they're doing at the weekend, keep it casual. BE GENUINLEY INTERESTED
things you should talk about if you like her is like say things about how hot or pretty she is. ask her what her plans are for friday. ask questions about her
just strike up a conversation about anything really.... music? aslong as you talk youl be allright x
I always talk about the girls interests when i talk with them like if they do Cheerleading you could talk about that and ask questions.
Anything that is some kind of question. Colors, classes, teachers, food, homework, gossip, pets, subjects, computer games, songs, famous people, etc.
Usually you want to avoid the guy topics such as football and politics. When you're around a girl you want to talk about girl things such as hair, makeup, and girl tv shows. If your talking to a tom boy then it is okay to talk about guy stuff.
What they like doing. How their siblings/pets are. Say they have nice clothes (if you think so) Discuss what YOU feel comftarbul with!
If the conversation goes towards typical "girl" topics like hair, makeup, clothes, shoes etc. you could try to talk about the same things if you have something to say (hair and clothes aren't important only to girls for example). Otherwise there are loads of common topics that you could talk about such as school life, people's dating lives, parties you were at, what you did the weekend etc.
There are any number of topics you can discuss in chat to attract a guy. Talk sports, guns, fireworks, food, girls, cars, and anything else guys talk about.
Talk to them.
Anything that intrests you.
Because girls have better things to do than talk to silly, invert boys who don't have the gonads to talk to them their selves. Girls want YOU to talk to THEM.
they like to talk aboutcars, motobikes, girlsanything related to boys.
You can talk about Enron & Arthur Anderson. This is the mostinterestingtopic you can talk about.
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