What actions can you take to improve your own interpersonal relationships?

Answer 1

1. Confidence: one of the most important of making a releationship of any kind working is confidence. It may be different to achieve if this person worries you or if your unsure of them but just keep eye contain, smile and don't be afraid to use hand movements its better than standing dead still like a brick.

2. Always always always respect there opinions: Not everyone will like the same things as you some will have religions some will have different lifestyles to you but it nothing against them you may strongly disagree you can tell them if you do but don't demand to no why they think something if you want to no ask and don't get to strong opinionated about it. Other people may think your being offense.

3. Listen: One think I hear often (sorry guys I know its not all of you) from my family and people I know is that men don't listen they hate it. It can be the down fall of the relationship and women can be the down fall to for that reason so don't ignore them they are people to they don't want to be ignored.

Ok now that's the basics lets get the physiological out there.

1. Mirror/Matching Image: Ok it is proven that if you copy some of the similar movements as someone else that person will feel as if you to are closer together like better friends. One thing though you must do this enough a tiny bit if they notice it won't work and their think your a stalker just do it simply like if they brush their hair away from their face do it like 5 seconds afterwards after a couple of actions later then they our likely to start coping your actions in the same way without noticing that means its working this will make you to closer together in friendship or more.

2.Voice Understanding: Like the mirror image trick this works in the same way almost if someone talks to you and is upset they hope your been kind to them and understand. This can helped on your part if someone is talking to you panicky try to match their vocie it will calm them down more because they will feel you understand them more and their isn't as much need to panic. This works with normal stations to not just if someones panicky.

3. Open position: The way we move the way we sit we call it open and closed position. If where in any open position we have are hands way from are body or are not covering it with are hands and arms. This will make people want to talk to you because you look more approachable. The closed position is where you cross your arms cover your face in some sort of way, cover your shoulders, basically covering any part of your body above the waist. This will make people less likely to talk to you because psychologically it doesn't look welcoming.

If your not to sure how to mirror you can leave that one out but try to follow all my tips for the best advice.