What activities fit the description of destroying things around the house and would cause someone to be fearful?

It would take a professional to diagnose someone that repeatedly does this. The person is obviously frustrated and angry (probably inner anger at themselves) and this must be resolved by a counselor. These are called "rages". Punching walls, breaking valuables, throwing items at the person, throwing things into the walls. Any type of agression can cause someone to be fearful, especially if it is directed towards them.