What are the signs to look out for if a guy is playing you?

Answer 1

Assuming that you are a "younger" lady, (unfortunately and TOO often) many guys tend to accuse you of either lying to them OR not caring about themself. IF you feel uncomfortable in your Heart, this IS a big indication that something is wrong. IF you observe him "carefully", sooner or later he will get caught in his own lies. Have you ever heard this saying......You can fool some of the people all of the time, and you can fool all of the people some of the time....BUT, you CAN'T fool ALL of the people ALL the Time!!!!.. Let your Heart be your True and Honest judge of his Character.... True and Honorabe Character is ALMOST none existent and Very hard to find among Guys/Men in our society today.. I wish you the best and I Really Hate to see you get hurt...Honestly and Most Sincerely..........

Answer 2

if he acts harder than he is to his friends and if he has got into your pants in the first week of dating He never follows through. If he says he will call and doesnt, he is playing you. Make him make you feel top priority and make you feel important to him. Anything less is unexceptable. Observe if he is a smooth talker. Usually a guy is playing you when he tells you all the stuff that you want to hear.

Answer 3

This is from my instinct.. Here's Some signs of a dude playing you: 1. When people are around he's all nice n act like he likes you 2. He'll say he likes u n he wants to go out with you n his friends are there laughing in the background n when he walks off they look back at you n burst out laughing n may say things like (Haha she's a loser or lol wow or Why did u ask her out n laughing at the same time). 3. When people aren't around he treats you like CRAP like you're worthless or something. 4. He'll promise to keep secrets u told him (But he's lieing he'll tell everyone wut u said) 5. He'll call u a B***h n a Sl** to hurt your feelings.. But yet he says he still likes you (Not really).. It may seem confusing but that's just the beginning when a guy plays u he confuses you on purpose making you wonder if he really likes u. deep n side he doesn't.. He'll go behind your back n say u said stuff u never said n make people think your a wh*** or something negative. Then you'll feel really bad n he'll be all like i love u n i wanna be with u, i never said that stuff your friend went behind your back n said that. So you'll fight with your friend or something (If you fall for it) unfortuanlly some people fall for that.. N if u say yes when he asks you out, he'll go to his friends n be like "lol wow she actually said yes after all the mean things i did to her!" Then in front of his friends he'll dump u n embarass u n say he never liked u n he never will. Some dudes r reeeel slik n will go out with u 4 a short period of time n make u do things with him n tell people so you won't have friends. N he might say your a "freak ur nasty" n Be like you're ugly n i really didn't like u or may say things like haha i got you u fell for it n walk off... But don't cry over a player just foreget about those type of boys they do all those mean things just 2 be popular!

Answer 4

You use your instincts, if he starts telling you he really cares about you, wants to marry you or is falling head over heels in love with you within the first few weeks and this seems bizarre or makes you feel bad vibes when the thrill of the words goes away but you hardly ever see him or can find him, then he's probably playing you. Sugar coated BS usually gives it away.

Answer 5

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Hhmm! are you involve with a man who is married or already have a girlfriend? At first you wouldn't know but if you think his acting a bit weird to you and always answering you with the question, that's when you can ask him what his trying to do. There are men who loves to play head games so you be very careful or else you will be taken for granted.

Answer 6

If he dosent call you as often, or contact you like he use to, and seem's to be txt his exes..then you know your being played...and if you really have a gut feeling like your being played...........then trust your gut.

If he dosent call you as often, or contact you like he use to, and seem's to be txt his exes..then you know your being played...and if you really have a gut feeling like your being played...........then trust your gut.

well that's good Advice even tho imma a guy but yeaa i can see what u mean...

Answer 7

It depends on the man and how he likes to play. Some men try to hide things from you or lie about old girlfriends. He could pressure you to having sex and that means he just wants some. You can tell by your instinct if you feel something is not right and you need to stay away from I would do it. Its better safe than sorry but its better to have love and lost then never to love at all but that depends if you love him. If you're not sure about him get out while you can before you create a deeper hole or just simple talk to him about how feels toward you then when that comes use your instinct.

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If you are not comfortable with what he says and his actions don't match, then he is being manipulative. There's no easy test for this, but if something doesn't feel right, you can be sure it isn't. Walk away, the sooner the better. There's better guys out there.

Answer 8

• Men aren't as devious as women. It may appear they are trying to play hard to get, but men are usually of simple means and not as complicated as women. Men seldom discuss their feelings and perhaps they could be shy or simply not want a relationship at this time. Then there are those guys that just want the attention, sex and want no relationship because they are having too good a time. If they are not respectful of you, miss dates you've made with each other, seldom phones and seldom keeps his promises then nix this guy!

Answer 9

When he can't look you in the eye, can't stand still, or if he's playing with his hands, phone, etc.