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What can I do when if your spouse hasn't touch you after his affair?
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∙ 13y ago
- If your husband admitted to his affair then he is trying and simply made a mistake, but if you caught him in the affair and threatened to leave him then he may well feel trapped and men are not noted for knowing what to do when it comes to relationships of any sort, but women are far more tuned in. Your husband may feel he is trapped and is getting back at you by not having a sexual relationship with you or he feels too much guilt. Some men on a general basis (right or wrong) do not always like the women taking control of this sort of situation. Start communicating! If you have children then send them to the grandparents or a friends over-night and sit down with your husband and discuss your marriage. No matter how angry or hurt you may feel keep calm because if you start arguing the conversation is over. Simply ask him for the truth which is whether he truly loves the woman he had the affair with or does he love you. Then go from there. You are in complete control of your own destiny and depending on what your husband says you will either get help from a marriage counselor or, if he is still in love with his mistress or not happy in the marriage for other reasons then you can tell him you are going to either get a separation or start divorce proceedings.
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Is your spouse cold and distant to everyone after his affair including your children?
if he had an affair, then he shouldn't still be your "spouse", in my opinion.
How do you begin healing after your spouse affair?
slash the tires of the car belonging to your spouse.
Is their an affair going on your spouse is sending and receiving email from a former boss who has left the company three years ago she deletes them all the talk on cell phone she deletes the numbers?
It appears that an affair can be going on because if your spouse was just keeping in touch with a boss they happened to like as a friend then the spouse would have no problem asking them home for dinner and introducing you to them. The fact your spouse is deleting emails and any cell phone calls means your spouse is hiding something. It is time to sit down with your spouse and ask them straight out if they are having an affair and if they deny it then tell them you are not putting up with deleted emails and cell phone calls.
What can you do if my spouse who had an affair still commincates with the other?
Nothing. It is strange that your spouse still communicates with the person she had an affair with, but aslong as it is just words and not actions, it is still acceptable.
Why can't we blame the spouse from their affair instead of the other woman?
You should be able to blame your spouse fully, since he/she allgedly cheated on you, whether the person they had the affair with realized it or not.
Why i Had affair got divorced?
If you had an affair, your spouse must have had a very broken heart, and can not love you again, or trust you. what you do for pleasure with someone other than your spouse causes your spouse a great deal of pain, that's why it is usually frowned upon.
Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
Will you ever feel that security and peace that you once had from your spouse after his affair?
Maybe but not really. I has to do with the way you are and the way he/she asks after the affair.
How do you know if your marriage will survive after your spouse affair?
You don't. You have to make an educated guess based on your knowledge of your spouse's personality.
How will you feel if your spouse compared you to his affair partner?
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
How can you tell if its sex addiction or affair?
Its a sex addiction if your spouse catches you.
What are ways you can cope with the aftermath of your spouse affair?
Ice cream and masturbation
