What can you do when you are married but in love with someone else?

Answer 1

you may want to stay clear of it because for one there needs to be a healing time for her to let herself get her feelings in order. You don't want either of you to be a habit.

Answer:

Is it worth it to have this love knowing that both of you are hurting someone without him knowing? If you really love this married woman, you will do something sacred to let her go. Like the old myth says "if you love someone, love that person enough to let him or her go." Change your life by looking for someone who is available and no issue. In a long run you will find that true love you are looking for.

Answer 2

• Many couples who get engaged; married and start their lives together feel there is nothing they cannot conquer as long as they love each other and they do not begin to deal with the reality of the seriousness of marriage. Marriage is not a perfect journey and there is sorrow; happiness and arguments off and on throughout the marriage (some people do so more than others) and good communication skills are a must have in order to get through these rough times. The old saying, 'if it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger' comes with anything that is serious in your life such as a choice of career; marriage and children. Marriage is not for sissies! In these modern times it often appears that some people want things to be perfect in their lives without working to make their marriage a better one or in any other aspect of their lives so they may start looking around for love in other places. Wise people realize that if they should cheat or divorce one mate (if the mate is a good person and it is not about verbal or physical abuse) that choosing another because they are too lazy to bother to try and fix the problems in the marriage will only keep having problems in one relationship after another. Sometimes a few months away from each other may help or, see a marriage counselor. You chose your mate and you owe your mate that much before cheating on them or divorcing them.