What can you do if you love a girl and you told her that you love her and she said she thought of you only as a friend and you are mad for her and will die without her?

Answer 1

DUDE TRUST ME dont turn bac to look at that thought ull heart your self

dont try and force the luv ull trun crazzy and want to comit sewerside

one day she will realy luv u

but if ur REALY DETERMEND TO SUCEIED

make her kiss u for no reason then shell fall in love with u girlz are like that

how? well

if you have somebody else in the room let them leave first.

then get close to him/her.

next lean a little closer.

finally look dreamily in to there eyes.

if they look at u the same way ur bang on soon thell

make a move SO JOIN THEM

Well in my opinion, I think you should just move on and try to get over her. She's not worth the time, one day she'll want you - trust me! Girls can be a bit weird like that.

AnswerWalk away and don't look back. You will hurt yourself more and more if you want her and she just wants to be friends. MOVE ON! AnswerIt's a tough lesson for any of us to learn that you can't have everything you want and that includes trying to force someone to love you the way you love them. Most of us at sometime in our lives has been rejected by the opposite sex. Most of us never died from it. If you don't move on as the other poster suggested then you could be really missing out on meeting your true love. AnswerI have felt this way a COUPLE times. Believe me, it will fade into nothing. You will get through it and honest you will meet another girl eventually that takes your breath away. Heartache is hard but thank god it goes away. Take care! Do not chase her, walk away AnswerI too am sorry about your heartbreak...believe me, this too shall pass.

But, if I understand the premise in your question - You feel She should change her feelings because of yours.....but don't think YOU should even control yours in light of hers?

Doesn't really make sense does it? Sound like someone too self centered and not concerned about the other enough to want to be really close with?

If it helps, you may well find if you started acting as if each of your feelings are important, she may find you more suitable as more than a friend.

AnswerSpend more time with her. If you truly love her, then you will need patience to win her heart. Then when you feel the time is right, make a move, impress her or whatever you think is necessary. Never give up on love! AnswerIt's very possible that you may win her over, but either way you need to understand that love is not selfish or its not love. You say you're mad that she doesn't love you. If you really loved her you would respect her wants, always want her to be happy above yourself. one example of real love is what I read in the book A Tale of Two Cities, where a guy fell in love with a girl and he basically said "if she loved someone else, I would die trying to keep them together, to keep her next to the one that she loved." that's real love. To die with her best interest in mind, not your own selfish "if I can't have her I cant live." and remember that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean they aren't loving you with all that they have. In other words, she may be giving you the best she can offer you but not find herself able to conjure up that feeling for you. Give the girl a break, she's still your friend. AnswerIf you want the best for her, then wouldn't you be much happier off in letting her be with a guy with whom she wants to be with later on rather than having her to be miserable with someone whom she doesn't want to be with? Or if you're too in love with her, maybe you can wait for her til she's married. Maybe she'll even want to be with you one day if you can satisfy all her wants and needs from a guy who she's looking for.