What do you do if the guy you like likes your best friend and he doesn't know that you like him because you are really shy?

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You should first tell your best friend that you like him, to make sure she doesnt like him, then if you like him enough, (depending on what grade your in) you should ask him out, or just tell him you like him

Answerif he doesn't like you, then there's really nothing you can do about it. You can't force someone to be attracted to you, nor can you stop them from being attracted to someone else. You'll just have to live with it. If you don't want to, then let him know you like him. Flirt a little, don't directly tell him, but get to point across. Who knows, maybe he has a thing for you and just doesn't know how to let you know. Guys very rarely make the first move, and usually they're waiting for you to get it going. Good luck! AnswerWell, if your best friend likes him, then move on because it will be uncomfortable for all. Besides, you wouldnt want to lose your best friend over any guy, not worth it. If your best friend doesnt like him and he gets the hint then you can start to show your interest in him. Now I know you said your shy but you can ease into this with subtlety. When a group of you are hanging out be sure to listen to his interest then later on make small talk about that. Look to see if he wears any shirts with sport or music logo's or a particular type of clothing, talk about that. People always like to talk about where they would love to travel to. Go to the library and get a book on overcoming shyness. Join activities you like to help you come out of your shell. Good luck.

I'm in that same situation now, the guy just moved here, she has a lot of classes with him, I have none with him. My friend likes him and he likes her. I made it obivous I liked him and I always made sure that I looked my best around him.

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if you liked this guy first, then it should be up to your friend to do the right thing. If she likes him too then its her decision on whether she wants to be a good friend or not.

If she liked him first then your going to have to let her have him. You don't want to break her heart by not letting the guy she likes & they guy who likes her be together because of you selfish reasons. Just go witht he flow w.e happens, happens.

If she doesn't like him then its all good. This one guy was obsessed with one of my friends. She ddin't like him at all. One of my other friends tried to get him to get over the friend he was obsessed with. Through the process she ended up falling for him. He eventually got over the friend he was obsessed with & thim & my other friend have been together for over a month now. Your young use what you got, to get him!

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The answer is simple, be happy for your best friend. I know it is hard, because I am in the same situation but would you prefer your best friend to be happy or hurt? Sometimes, we even feel things that we cannot express to others, even if it hurts us inside. At the end of the day you are her best friend, and as a best friend this is all you can do.

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Well if she is truly your best friend she's not going to date him. But if you really want to start a relationship and get his mind of your best friend then you have to let him know. It's not like he's going to suddenly think that you do. If you absolutely can not ask this boy out then this is your lastresort. Tell your best friend to let him know that she won'tbecause of you liking him. Unless she likes him to then you just have to be the good best friend and lay off.