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What do you do when girls assume that you are a player because of your good looks and you only attract promiscuous girls but you really want an innocent girl who isn't just looking for sex?


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September 13, 2011 10:29AM

When you start dating make sure that you have made it clear of what you are looking for and what you think is sexy. Also maybe you should consider finding a different group of girls to hang with. Just alittle more info, some girls only come off that way because they are insecure about themselves.


Other people's assumptions that you are a player does not mean anything about what you choose in your life. As I told my kids: those other people don't live your life--you do! Ask out girls who have the personal qualities you like and ignore the rest. Ask the girl to go bowling, to the movies or some other activity that does not seem likely to be conducive to sexual activity.