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Consider the possibility that he is using a casual friendship with your friend as a way to get closer to you. Its common enough to take a non-direct route to get something set up. Remember that a direct approach is very risky to guys because you may turn him down, or ridicule him. Using your friend as a stepping stone is a sensible cautious approach to finding out if you are interested.

AnswerHe has crossed a boundary that should not be crossed if he is your friend. Don't give him a second chance. he is showing his true colors. he is wasting your time. You and your friend need to tell him the rules. If it is you he likes he hangs with you. If it is your friend he likes he hangs with her. Don't let him have it both ways. Teach him the rules or give him the boot. You are worth it. Motto: No more bozos! AnswerHe may have used you to get to your friend (I sadly admit I did this once), but this isn't the case every time. Also the guy may be shy and try to avoid ridicule and unwanted attention by getting to know your friend and ask about you (I also did this).
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