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What do you do when you told your friend you like them but now they won't talk to you?
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∙ 13y ago
By telling her you like her (in a romantic or sexual way) you've changed the dynamic of your friendship. She thought you were just friends, and now that she knows your attracted to her it has made things different, and she doesn't know how to deal with it. Perhaps she doesn't like you in the same way and feels kind of guilty about it, so it's difficult to be around you. Or maybe she does have feelings for you but was more comfortable with pretending that she didn't. The main thing is things have changed, and people find it difficult to cope with change.
That doesn't mean you should regret telling her though. If you really like her, it's no good to be seeing her all the time but not being able to tell her how you feel.
You took a risk, and it didn't work out the way you'd hoped. But that's ok. You've got to take risks in life. Sometimes you'll end up losing something important (possibly like your friendship with this girl), but other times you'll gain something awesome that you never would have if you hadn't taken a risk.
The main thing is to decide what you should do now. If you think you can honestly be around her as just friends and it won't tear you up inside - try to find some way to talk to her (maybe just send an email) and let her know you want to just be friends again because her friendship is important to you. Let her know that you'll be ok with it, and that you don't expect anything from her. Or, if you can't handle being just friends - let it go. Hang out with other friends, pay attention to other girls, keep yourself busy with hobbies etc. - and let this girl go from your life. It'll be hard, but it's what you have to do.
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∙ 10y ago
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∙ 13y agotry to talk to him and ask him why he wont talk to you, if he says its because hes embarrassed or something like that, then tell him your sorry but you had to let him know (: x
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