What do you say to a boy if he asks you out and your parents don't let you date YET Can you say let's talk at school and then ask him out later when you are allowed to date?

Answer 1

Yes that would be okay but be honest with him and tell him that your parents don't want you dating at this time and you have to respect that. Perhaps if you asked your parents, you could invite this boy and a couple of other friends (as suggested above) to your house to listen to records, play Board Games, or even study together you could spend some time with this boy with your parents' approval. Once they get to meet the boy and your friends, they might allow you to go to movies and other places with them. ANSWER

Yes that would be okay but be honest with him and tell him that your parents don't want you dating at this time and you have to respect that.

Or.. Tell Your Mum Your Goin Out With Friends. Take 1 Of Your Friends With A Boyfriend && Double Date!!.. This Way Your Not Lieing As You Are Going Out With Friends.

The second paragraph is a no-no because if your parents find out you were on a double date, you would be betraying their trust as far as no dating and it will become a lot tougher for you to regain that trust. Perhaps if you asked your parents, you could invite this boy and a couple of other friends (as suggested above) to your house to listen to records, play board games, or even study together you could spend some time with this boy with your parents' approval. Once they get to meet the boy and your friends, they might allow you to go to movies and other places with them.

ANSWER

I think you answered yourself and just want to know if it's right or not, and yes you're very much right. If a person likes you he will never comprimize your relationship with your parents and put you in a bad situation. With all do respect when were young it's almost human nature to sometimes take it apond ourselves to lie to are parents, which is wrong but one thing us lying to them, than having some tell us to lye to them. If someone tells you to lye to your parents it should always be a red flag that they don't have are best interest at heart, be it friends or partners. If the boy likes you then he'll wait your both, what's the hurry? Get to know each other well first and enjoy this part of what could one day be a nice relationship. In regards to your parents, drop sutule hints that you like a boy and seel there reaction and take it from there. If they don't want you dating period then just wait, the worst a parent see is when there child goes against them or questiones them over a boy (or girl) then they will never let you see him because then they'll see him as the cause of your attitude problems with them. I don't know your age but I don't think your fifty or seventy or ninety, so theres no rush to get to know one boy know when later on you'll probably know hundreds and have your pick. Good luck. Bye. Answer Yikes! That is sure to cause some awkwardness for sure! Now, I get in this situation ALL the time cause my parents don't let me date. Be honest with the guy, and tell him that you really like (if you do) but aren't allowed to date. Say "I would say yes, but I do not want to break my parents rules." Me and guys a lot act like we're 'dating', actually we pretty much are, but we don't call it dating. We call it 'good friends who like each other'. Its a great way to date, without tecnically dating, and not change much!