What does it mean when your wife of 7 years says that she loves you but is not in love with you?

Problem is routine life style.. When you get too comfortable with marriage, you tend to drift away from what made her fall in love with you in the first place. Women crave that attention, love, romance, and suprises from their man! Try to think of the first time you guys went out on a date.. Think of the things you did to make her fall in love with you... Now, how often do you do things to impress her? Good luck! The above poster gave you excellent advice. How about planning a special romantic holiday together! Most wives complain their husbands ignore them, treat them like an old slipper, don't listen to them and aren't romantic enough. All of us good through dry spots in our marriage, but it can be fixed. You want her ... fight to keep her! Talk to her about where she would like to go on a holiday and do it.