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What does it really mean when you catch your spouse having an affair and the only thing she will ever reply is he made me do things?
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That sounds a little complicated but there is an answer to your question. If you catch your spouse with someone else, you should first talk about it with her to find out the truth. If she confirms that the other guy did in fact make her do things she didn't want to do, then you should be able to believe her.
But, if she gives no response or even just says something along the lines of 'we've been seeing each other for a while', 'he's just a friend' or 'i've known him for a long time', then you should assume that she enjoys the attention from the other guy.
What that really means is maybe, I'm just saying this as maybe because I don't know the full extent of what you're going through, she is seeking attention from someone who can give her what she wants. Or, quite possibly she needs to do things that maybe she doesn't enjoy with you.
Sorry for what you're going through, and I hope it works out for you. If it doesn't, then she wasn't the right girl for you and you should move on to someone who appreciates you and won't go around sleeping with other people
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You have found out someone cheated on spouse visa what should you do now?
Your question is a bit complex but if you want to know what you need to do because you found out a spouse is having an affair and you know the other spouse, you need to talk to the person who is cheating to stop because of your friend. If this spouse don't listen to your plea, then tell him or her that you will talk to his or her spouse. That is all you can do. The rest will be them to work things out.
Can you really recognize if your spouse is having an affair?
Usually, the spouse will act very strange and leave the house a lot. Also, when you ask them where they have been they may hesitate and then quickly change the subjuct. To find out if they are having an affair, just stalk them. It may be difficult, but try to make it look natural. If they ask why you're doing that, don't cover up. Just tell them the truth and ask them if they are. If they refuse to answer, you know somethings up and i would walk out. If you have children, take them with you for a few days. Then come back and see how things are going. If well, you would have to go through some major marriage counseling and try to sort things out, but they should have never had an affair in the first place.
Is Kristen with Robert or Rupert?
Neither really Robert and her are going through some things after kristen Stewart addmiting to Robert pattison that she is having an affair
You feel guilty about having an affair should you stop?
You wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't already feel there was something problematic about what's occurring. When you invest most of your focus and energies into an affair, you put other things on the shelf--your spouse/partner and your children (if any). By seeking a emotional escape with a lover, you're turning away from reality, which includes the reasons you're unsatisfied in your current life. What is missing from your life that you feel is met by the affair and your affair partner? The problems that were in your life before the affair started haven't gone away, it's just easier to ignore them when you're on the emotional 'high' that an affair creates. When that high fades for either you or your lover you'll be back to square one. You (personally) still will not be satisfied with your life. The problem with an affair is that both lovers live in a bubble--never planning on the major fallout that would occur if the affair was found out. Would you leave your spouse/partner for your lover? Would they leave their current partner for you? Can you accept that you will be seen as untrustworthy, based on your secrets and deceits? Will you be OK with being gossiped about, and possibly having your children exposed to it? Are you prepared for the possibility being asked by your spouse to leave your home and your family? What do want out of your marriage/relationship? If you want to stay with your spouse/partner, you need to focus on that relationship by ending the affair now. If you no longer want to be in you current relationship, you need to do the most integral thing for everyone concerned--notify your spouse/partner that you are ending the relationship. It is then up to you and your affair partner to decide if you have anything worth pursuing in real life.
How do you know when your love one is having an affair?
you know when by the way he is always secretative and hinds phones or other things. Or also if you find things that are awkward for you to think about.
How do you lead a good married life after your spouse had an affair?
It is a very hard thing to do. Your spouse bottom line was unfaithful. Marriage is a covenant; a promise between two people to be faithful and love each other. If your spouse cheats then they have broken their side of the covenant, meaning you shouldn't have to keep holding onto to your end either. It hurts to know that someone you love felt intimate about someone else; showing an expression of love and affection such as that to someone else. I'm not sure if this is the case, but sometimes incidents happen when there is alcohol or some drug abuse involved; but it means they were not being considerate or responsible. Think about the fact that many people can still resist things that are wrong when they were drunk or high. But it does explain less of a sense of good judgement. Something that no person wants to be is second best to someone they love, especially if they are in a commitment with that person; which in the normal case of having an affair, that is what the spouse becomes. And that is what the spouse made you was second best; you wouldn't want to always be that even if the spouse does remain faithful to you after the affair. The cheating spouse was NOT the victim; the faithful spouse is. It is your decision whether or not to take pity on this. I'd say take these things into consideration when you think about whether or not you can actually make a healthy marriage out of that situation. And if you can I highly suggest marriage counseling. It is a good thing to have someone there helping and listening to your problems then laying them out for you so you can see it clearly and really get a feel for the situation. Anyway, Good Luck :)
Why to keep doing things secretly from your spouse?
If your talking about having affair, yes you can call that a huge secret that will destroy someone or a family. This are one big problem between couples, and it doesn't matter if it's a happy marriage or a marriage having problem. Man or woman never really thought of the consequences before they act on it. When a married man cross that path, all he can think of is his selfish needs. Woman always act on getting attention because husband never spent time or make them feel special. Either way affair consist of infidelity and emotional and this are what ruins the marriage. And keeping it a secret are what they want because it gives them thrilled.
What three things happened in the third story apartment in The Great Gatsby?
The three things that happened in the third story apartment in The Great Gatsby include a fight, a bizarre party, and affair. Tom & Myrtle are having the affair, and Tom breaks Myrtle's nose when she taunts him.
What is moral damages?
Moral damages are things a person does that violate their moral code of conduct. This may be stealing, having an affair, or lying about something.
You are a married woman having an affair The man you are having an affair with is becoming more possessive Should you be concerned?
Yes; since this may lead to abuse, domestic violence and a lot more dangerous things that you don't want to deal with. I'm going to be honest here, but I think that you were in the wrong. You cheated on your Husband, which is always something to be ashamed of. Since the man that you're having an affair with is starting to get more possessive; I would recommend telling your husband, if it gets worse call the police. Good luck
Who grassed sam up in eastenders?
i think it might be Adam because he might think that Minty's having an affair with her and didnt want things to mess up for his mum maybe?
How do you let go after having an affair?
To let go after having an affair, it's important to reflect on your actions and take responsibility for the hurt caused. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, seek therapy to understand the underlying reasons for the affair, and work towards rebuilding trust through transparency and accountability. It may also be necessary to give space and time for healing, and consider the possibility of ending the relationship if it's no longer healthy or fulfilling for both parties.
