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What if someone wants to fight you but you dont want to tell on her?
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∙ 13y ago
As always there is no absolute answer. As far as I can see in your situation, I'll give you a few options
Don't fight with her. If it's a close friend, ask why she wants to fight and find methods to resolve it if you want to avoid violence. For example, talking in a public area where you're less likely to make a scene. Keep a calm face and at the least, fake pretend that you are holding the reins of the conversation. Can be applied to most situations (because it's vague).
Fight. In this situation anything can go. If you are beaten to a pulp, weigh your chances and if the pros outweigh the cons, go ahead and tell. If it escalates to something more than just fighting, in example attempted murder, TELL, well tell if you value life. If you don't, someone does and look at it this way, if you don't value your life, someone else has a better use for you.
If you end up beating them up... you did good. If they started the fight come in from the point of self defense and testify that she started it. Whether or not you guys may still hold resent towards each other is up to your attitudes, but if you act as the higher man you're bound to get somewhere.
Use extremes. Tell everyone about the fight. This will most likely head in either two ways. One, the preferred, the offender will back off. Or Two, you end up fighting in a public manner, usually with the attacker being cautious of getting in trouble since the fight is publicly known.
If the persons dead out for you, tell a couple close friends or random students, but make sure someone gets word of the situation.
And know the most general answer. Don't tell. If you look hard enough you'll probably find out why you don't want to tell on her. Maybe because you don't really care enough to tell, or you hold residual feelings towards the girl.
That's 'bout it.
Coming from a sadomasochistic failure of a student counselor in highschool who enjoys fighting and sees it as a form of exercise.
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