What if you text a guy and he responds and when you tell him to hang out he agrees but he does not put any effort to be the first one to be texting or or dusnt even text you at all?

Answer 1

Okay I have been in this situation with my boyfriend. It's a whole matter of boys being inconsiderate. It is a common, most-guys thing. They often don't take into consideration how you feel or your longings to talk to them and to get attention from them.

But in my situation it was different; I was my boyfriends first girlfriend, and he was a shy person; he and I were best friends for a long time; over the years he was really able to open up to me in ways he never was before. He would tell me everything from his daily frustrations to his crushes that i tried to give him confidence to ask out. He eventually realized that those girls weren't what i was and that i was what he wanted. But that threw all of his open-ness with me out the window, but not our ability to talk things out. I just had to work my way back to helping him feel comfortable around me only i had to use other methods, like a girlfriend. He just had problems expressing how he felt to me and about me. But him shutting me out like that because of it was inconsiderate, and he realized that after he could see how upset he was making me, but things are better now.

If it is about just a date then the guy is flakey and probably not someone you want to go out with. He might just cause you more frustration.