Narcissists pretty much always operate in 'False Self Mode' because they deny and ignore their real, fallible selves in favour of a false, grandiose self-image. They need to feel good about themselves all the time and cannot, and will not, accept that they have weaknesses and failings like 'ordinary' people. They see themselves as superior and special, far above other mere mortals (that is, the rest of us). There are several articles on Narcissism at:
www.ultimate-self.com
sounds more like DEPENDENT personality disorder Narcissists have a FALSE self.
Narcissists actually self-loathe themselves. The old quote, "You always hurt the ones you love" is true in this case. Narcissists can be either very controlled and crafty or some are out of control like a runaway locomotive. By confronting the Narcissist about the problems they have they become angry because in their heart of hearts they know the person directing the confrontation is right and Narcissists love that control! I understand that N's have a "true self" and a "false self". When they behave cruelly and are mean and cold-eyed, is this the false self in a bad state or the true self screaming for help or perhaps a third self of some kind? They surely must loathe themselves for all the pain and suffering they cause. It's unnecessary and gratuitous, and it makes one wonder if they know what "self" they are even in when they do it. Seems to me they are in a crumbling state of some kind when they do it. They push away the very people who might help them.
A true Narcissist does not know what love it. Their heart is an empty shallow shell because they prefer self-centeredness to love. Everything emotional in a Narcissists life is superficial because they really don't have any feelings for other and they don't know how to be empathetic to others needs. All they know how to do is play along. As long as they look good on the outside, their false self, then everything in their life is swwelllllllllllllll.
Narcissists seek to destroy only people who threaten their inflated and grandiose self-image (False Self). When threatened with looming intimacy, they simply disappear from the scene or discard and devalue the person in their own minds.
No not likely they are too self absorbed to have any competition..
Power, they will let you go when they have achieved their goal of self satisfaction, then move on.
Narcissists may not fully realize or acknowledge how self-absorbed they are due to their inflated sense of self-importance and lack of empathy for others. They are often more focused on maintaining and feeding their own ego rather than reflecting on their behavior.
There is no single most common profession for narcissists, as narcissism can be found in individuals across various industries and roles. However, professions that involve power, influence, and attention, such as CEOs, politicians, and entertainers, may attract individuals with narcissistic traits.
false
True synchronous mode and self control mode
1) talks to self 2) argues with self 3) looses argument with self 4) is no longer speaking to self
mode of communication, self confidence