== == * Very low possibility, but possible. When a man cheats, there are two types: one night stand or continuing affair. The first is easier to work through (still difficult, but a little easier), the second is emotional and deeply involves the 3rd party. Get counseling and try if your marriage is worth saving. If there are no kids involved and you feel he will cheat again, leave him and find someone who deserves a faithful wife. * I think you know that he has probably cheated on you before marriage, but possibly thought you could change him when married or he'd change himself. You have a choice here. Put your foot down with him and tell him you're a one man woman or he can hit the bricks! Don't waste your time on letting him rule the situation. Stand up for yourself girl! * This does not mean that you should forgive him for his cheating but it simply indicates that you do not know enough about each other. What I would do is simply ask him like this: "I am deeply hurt that you cheated on me, what made you do it?" You will probably get an evasive answer at first but keep on asking and try to find out what he thinks is lacking in your relationship. Be certain though that this is not going to be a one-sided situation. If he explains his reason - and there is a strong possibility that he'll blame you - make certain that you also make demands off him. We call that the "Tit for Tat" solution, e.a. resolving problems in a reciprocal way. See more about "Tit for Tat" solutions in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters."
There is no special name for a woman whose husband cheats on her. The name of a man whose wife cheats on him is a cuckold.
When your spouse cheats on you.
You love someone who lies to you, cheats on you, and uses drugs?
YES
shabd
Divorce...
yes, go to the court, now!!
The Women (1939)
I believe you mean the Alienation of Affection law. That law states that when an outsider has a hand in ruining a marriage i.e. husband cheats on wife and wants to leave wife for mistress, that the outsider(mistress)can be sued for making the husband/wife want to end their marriage. In this case, where hubby has cheated and brought home an STD, this law would not apply unless he is saying he wants to end the marriage and move in w/girlfriend in happy herpes bliss. My advice to you is to do your own sort of alienation and tell the whole town about the mistress, your husband cheating and the STD!
there are major problems in that marriage B: A couple don't need to have a problem with their marriage for a husband to have an affair. A Happy and perfect marriage also hit by a husband ending up with affair. All we need to know is why we do it and never cared about consequences. If we all search we all going to find that there's a lot of couples with or without problem ending up cheating. There are some not most, couples marriage will have a problem small or huge because the husband or wife started cheating. In the survey you will find out that affair, cheating, emotional or even infidelity is the main cost of couples problem.
The only people who know whether or not a marriage is going to work are the people in it. However, it's important to look at your motivations and understand what you're expecting and why you want to try. A husband who cheats a third time will cheat a fourth time - if that's something you're willing to accept, it may be worth it to keep your marriage. But if you're wanting to stay with him out of fear of being alone, fear of the shame of it and not because you want to be married to him (the real him--the cheater him) and you're expecting to change, you should consider what kind of marriage you do want.
The husband should kick her rear right out the door! No, it's not normal to stay with a husband as long as she can see her lover. There are no compromises after taking marriage vows and when those vows were taken that meant you were suppose to remain partners in marriage throughout your lives. Granted, not all marriages work out, but cheating is cheap and disrespectful to the partner and that bond of trust one has with their mate is gone and hard to get back. She needs to make up her mind and the husband needs to get a backbone!