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== == * Very low possibility, but possible. When a man cheats, there are two types: one night stand or continuing affair. The first is easier to work through (still difficult, but a little easier), the second is emotional and deeply involves the 3rd party. Get counseling and try if your marriage is worth saving. If there are no kids involved and you feel he will cheat again, leave him and find someone who deserves a faithful wife. * I think you know that he has probably cheated on you before marriage, but possibly thought you could change him when married or he'd change himself. You have a choice here. Put your foot down with him and tell him you're a one man woman or he can hit the bricks! Don't waste your time on letting him rule the situation. Stand up for yourself girl! * This does not mean that you should forgive him for his cheating but it simply indicates that you do not know enough about each other. What I would do is simply ask him like this: "I am deeply hurt that you cheated on me, what made you do it?" You will probably get an evasive answer at first but keep on asking and try to find out what he thinks is lacking in your relationship. Be certain though that this is not going to be a one-sided situation. If he explains his reason - and there is a strong possibility that he'll blame you - make certain that you also make demands off him. We call that the "Tit for Tat" solution, e.a. resolving problems in a reciprocal way. See more about "Tit for Tat" solutions in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters."

2008-06-26 09:39:59
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