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Yes it is etiquette to have a bridal shower for a second wedding.
Yes. It is proper etiquette, although it is also common for them to decline (but that probably depends on your relationship with him/her).
If you have not been invited to the wedding then you should not send a gift.
Yes. That would be proper, after all, you are not getting married.
No, it is not proper etiquette to send weddinginvitations by email if it is a large wedding. If you are having a small wedding and it's casual then you could send a card invitation by email.
* The best thing to do when someone does not buy a wedding gift for your son or daughter's wedding is to ignore it. Some of these guests may well give a wedding gift later and those that don't then they have no etiquette and just remember that when it's their turn if one of their children gets married. It's not worth the energy to bring it up and is not proper etiquette to do so.
* Whether some guests are going to a wedding or not it is etiquette to send them a wedding invitation as some people are sentimental and will keep the invitation.
Bring a card or small token gift.
It is still proper etiquette to wait a month or just over a month for a thank you note from the newly married couple because the couple may be on a long honeymoon and just settling into their new lives together.
Ask the bride if it is ok, unless you want it to be a surprise. Then, ask the groom if it is ok.
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The correct way to address a gift is "Mr. & Mrs. James Smith". The couple is already married so it is proper to address it this way.