What should a 16 year old three months pregnant do if your afraid of your dad who is very strict and threatens you and your boyfriend and said if you ever got pregnant he would kill you?

I think that if you are seriously afraid for what he might do, then you need to tell an adult that can help you when you tell him that will give you a safe place to go. Second, I went through a similar situation only I was engaged and 20. My mom was NOT happy to say the least, but now, I can barely get her to give me my son back she loves him so much. It will be hard but nothing melts a heart like a granchild. You need to get your priorities straight and figure out how to set a good example for your child and teaching them to have sex when they are mature enough to handle a child is the best start. I say that because I am supporting myself and my child with the help of my husband without my parents help which is what you need to figure out how to do. Finishing school is the best thing you can do, even if you have to take help from your parents or another adult, just don't let them treat you like a wounded puppy. Work for your help and earn their respect.

HI AM NEW TO THIS RIGHT BUT IF YOU'RE 16 MEANS YOU'RE OVER THU AGE YOU'RE ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE SEX A THOUGHT I WAS pregnant AND MY MOM WAS ASKING ME EVERYDAY IT IS SCAREY AT THE BIGGIN AND THEN ONCE ITS BEEN A FEW MONTH OR WEEKS IT TENDS TO CHANGE AND THEN A WISH YOU ALL THE BEST MURCH LOVE XXX


Tell someone that you can trust. Get help. Call the police!! He is threatening your life, and your child's!! Your dad is crazy!

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If you think he meant it for real you need to tell someone. But my dad told me and my sister if we ever got pregnant before marriage he would woop our asses but i got pregnant when i was 16 and had my baby when i was 17 and my dad loves her to death. My little girl calls her POP. He is her favorite person. I have noticed it is always different when you and your family are in the situation. Everybody says bad things or what they would do in these situations but you never know until it happens to you. Maybe you should talk to a close family member and if you really really really believe he make take drastic action like killing or abusing you or your boyfriend then you should contact police or someone of that nature.

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I think the calling the police is a bit much. He was unsuccessfully and inappropriately saying you shouldn't have sex - not actually threatening your life. If you think are old enough for the act, act old enough for the consequences. You need to tell him right away. The first couple of months are the most important. If you delay then your doctor can't help you and your baby finish this successfully. As a father of 4 girls, I would rather hear the truth, then deal with the results of in action or bad advise. He WILL be disappointed in you and even angry, but he will still LOVE you. Tell him, let him calm down and then ask for his help. Daddys, no matter how angry, can't not help.

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My dad was very strict. I got pregnant when i was 16 and I had to tell him. I thought he was going to kill my boyfriend. But he realized that we had done wrong, but he was ready to believe it. Once he got over his madness and after he punched out a few walls he was ready for my baby. He is very excited and he cant wait. Yes he kept us away for a while but only for a week because he knew that my baby's daddy was going to be in my life forever. Just tell your parents even if you know they will get mad. Also have someone there with you if you are scared. Your aunt your best friend. Just don't have your boyfriend...just kidding!!!