What should a 16 year old three months pregnant do if your afraid of your dad who is very strict and threatens you and your boyfriend and said if you ever got pregnant he would kill you?
I think that if you are seriously afraid for what he might do,
then you need to tell an adult that can help you when you tell him
that will give you a safe place to go. Second, I went through a
similar situation only I was engaged and 20. My mom was NOT happy
to say the least, but now, I can barely get her to give me my son
back she loves him so much. It will be hard but nothing melts a
heart like a granchild. You need to get your priorities straight
and figure out how to set a good example for your child and
teaching them to have sex when they are mature enough to handle a
child is the best start. I say that because I am supporting myself
and my child with the help of my husband without my parents help
which is what you need to figure out how to do. Finishing school is
the best thing you can do, even if you have to take help from your
parents or another adult, just don't let them treat you like a
wounded puppy. Work for your help and earn their respect.
HI AM NEW TO THIS RIGHT BUT IF YOU'RE 16 MEANS YOU'RE OVER THU
AGE YOU'RE ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE SEX A THOUGHT I WAS pregnant AND MY
MOM WAS ASKING ME EVERYDAY IT IS SCAREY AT THE BIGGIN AND THEN ONCE
ITS BEEN A FEW MONTH OR WEEKS IT TENDS TO CHANGE AND THEN A WISH
YOU ALL THE BEST MURCH LOVE XXX
Tell someone that you can trust. Get help. Call the police!! He is
threatening your life, and your child's!! Your dad is crazy!
If you think he meant it for real you need to tell someone. But my
dad told me and my sister if we ever got pregnant before marriage
he would woop our asses but i got pregnant when i was 16 and had my
baby when i was 17 and my dad loves her to death. My little girl
calls her POP. He is her favorite person. I have noticed it is
always different when you and your family are in the situation.
Everybody says bad things or what they would do in these situations
but you never know until it happens to you. Maybe you should talk
to a close family member and if you really really really believe he
make take drastic action like killing or abusing you or your
boyfriend then you should contact police or someone of that nature.
I think the calling the police is a bit much. He was unsuccessfully
and inappropriately saying you shouldn't have sex - not actually
threatening your life. If you think are old enough for the act, act
old enough for the consequences. You need to tell him right away.
The first couple of months are the most important. If you delay
then your doctor can't help you and your baby finish this
successfully. As a father of 4 girls, I would rather hear the
truth, then deal with the results of in action or bad advise. He
WILL be disappointed in you and even angry, but he will still LOVE
you. Tell him, let him calm down and then ask for his help. Daddys,
no matter how angry, can't not help.
My dad was very strict. I got pregnant when i was 16 and I had to
tell him. I thought he was going to kill my boyfriend. But he
realized that we had done wrong, but he was ready to believe it.
Once he got over his madness and after he punched out a few walls
he was ready for my baby. He is very excited and he cant wait. Yes
he kept us away for a while but only for a week because he knew
that my baby's daddy was going to be in my life forever. Just tell
your parents even if you know they will get mad. Also have someone
there with you if you are scared. Your aunt your best friend. Just
don't have your boyfriend...just kidding!!!