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What should you do after 12 years of marriage and your husband confessed to two affairs and now wants you to have an open marriage with him?
Wiki User
∙ 8y ago
- Your husband has to stop being so self centered and selfish and remember the marriage vows he took with you. Time for him to grow up! You have total control over your life and he has broken the trust with you by having two affairs. He appears proud of his endeavors and now wants you to have an open marriage which means you have enabled his behavior up to the present time. Humans make mistakes and sometimes one of the spouses may have an affair, but regret it, but sadly to say your husband has not one moral fiber in his body and he will continue to cheat or treat you in this disrespectful manner until you stand your ground with him. Give him one choice ... go with you to marriage counseling to help save your marriage or you are going to kick him out. It appears easier said than done and it is, but, you deserve to be treated better and he is trying to force you to do something you disagree with. You are stronger than you think you are and you deserve much better.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 8y agoto be completely honest i think you should just break up with him, cut to the chase he is a rubbish husband
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Who do you believe if your husband confessed out of supposed guilt when you were dating that he slept with your best friend but she completely denied it?
You should believe your husband. No man would tell something that could destroy his relationship unless it was true.
Can women be in control of there husband?
Many are, but a good marriage should be an equal partnership.
What to do about a bigamist marriage when the other husband died?
If you are a bigamist and your first, and legal, husband died then you should arrange to marry your present "husband". Until you do you are not legally married since your "marriage" to him was invalid due to your own marital status.
Can you ever trust your unfaithful husband after his affair?
Trust is earned and your husband broke that bond of trust so he is going to have to earn it back. Both of you should seek marriage counseling to get to the root of why your husband thought he should cheat and the counselor can give tools for the couple to work with and strengthen their marriage. A marriage counselor is not there to blame either party, but to get you both to see the weak spots in your marriage and work on them. No, you will probably not trust your husband for cheating for awhile because trust is earned.
How would a Sunni woman deal with a husband that has withdrawn himself from the marriage?
She would have to talk to him about their marriage and whether or not they should stay married.
Why is it when a wife wants to end the marriage that's when her husband start changing?
He doesn't want to lose her. They should seek marriage counselling.
Is your husband allowed to have another relationship even if you are not yet annulled?
No, a Marriage is for One to One but if the husband is in another relationship you are 50% of his a Love remember that. Also if i does have another Relationship but not Marriage it should be Legal
Should you hunt down the woman that had an affair your husband?
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
What should one do when your husband said you have affairs and you don't even think about it an affair?
You should talk to him politely and tell him. You can tell your whereabouts about which he has been unsure.
Should you tell your husband it's not his baby?
Yes. No good can come from lying. He has the right to know. Any negative consequence that comes after you tell him is the result of your infidelity, not of your having confessed it.
What can you do when your husband marries another wife?
You should notify the new "wife" that your husband is already married. His second marriage is not valid until you and he obtain a divorce.
You left your marriage for another man should you go back and give marriage another try?
You must have had a reason why you left your husband. If those problems are not solved, you will face the same problems when you go back. The other thing is: how will your husband treat you when you come back? I would recommend you a marriage counseling before you move back to your husband.
