What should you do if you're 30 and your girlfriend is 35 and you've been dating for 5 months but she is very insecure and told you she wasn't in love but doesn't want to break up?

Answer 1

Never stay with someone that is not in love with you. They don't have "staying power." Your life will be miserable. Think of this: You could get the same treatment by having a female roommate, so why stick this one out. You deserve better! It is not up to you to make her feel more secure in herself. It's a road all of us have to take alone. We learn from others, and as we get older we get wiser and feel more secure in ourselves. It's time to move on. Don't feel guilty about it. She survived before you came into the picture and she will continue to survive. Don't cheat yourself out of a young woman who is willing to love you for you. Good luck Marcy