What should you do if you love your husband but recently found out he has cheated 4 times with 4 different girls?
Once you might forgive your husband for cheating, but 2 - 3 - 4 times ... kick him out! You deserve better! When you keep taking him back in he has absolutely no respect for you and certainly no respect for himself. He has it good! He knows he can have the fine life and still come wandering up the path to your open arms. Stop it! There are some great men out there, so get away from this guy and start having the good life you deserve. Ask yourself this, "Do I really love him, or do I just feel I need a man around and support from this man?" Life is grand out there and you don't need him to get it. Good luck Marcy *Forgive him and understand that he is only being a man. The affairs were physical, no different than completing a marathon or mountain climbing. His emptional connection is real, and it is all that should matter. Honestly, you may need to re-evaluate your realtionship with him. It seems that each time you take him back, you condone his behavior. You send a message to him that says, " You hurt me, but it's o.k. that you keep doing this." Men..and women only do what they are allowed to do in relationships. You may need to set some boundaries. Also, ask yourself if he really enhances your life in any way? Does he add to or take away from your self worth? and finally..Do YOU love YOU?..I am sure you will make the right decision. If it doesn't bother you that he's cheating than don't worry about it. If it bothers you than make that move and get a divorce. Cheating or adultery is a good reason that the courts will recognize for a divorce. If children are involved please keep control of your emotions(there is nothing that can change what has been done anyway). The kids did not ask to come into this world you, through your actions, helped to bring them here. So please take special care, whatever decision you make. If you need to talk with someone, get in touch with a counselor. Counselors are available through catholic charity if you can't afford one. I know what you are going through. I recently found out that my husband of 3 years was cheating on me a year and a half ago with 4 different woman but more than 4 times. It still hurts and its not like I kept taking him back. I found out about all 4 of them the same day since it was such a long time ago. I have a 2 year old and I'm 8 and a half months pregnant with the second. I still love him and being that there are kids its not as easy for me to get out of the relationship. I was thinking about talking to a pastor about our problems and see what happens there. Everybody makes mistakes and he confessed on his own. It's not like I asked him because I never thought he would ever do that to me. God bless you with your relationship and I hope everything works out for you. In all honesty, If you are tolerating his behavior your putting yourself at risk for many things, std's and also the possibility he knock someone up and totally destroy your lives.
What do you do when a woman who could likely be vindictive and seek revenge thinks her husband now ex-husband cheated with you and she doesn't believe you?
Her husband has probably cheated on her more than once and any woman who is loyal to their husband and finds out they have cheated is extremely hurt and certainly will become angry, but few seek revenge. If you feel threatened by her and you know her ex then the three of you should meet and you tell her right to her face you had nothing to do with him; get up and tell the…
Should you be with your best friend even though it didnt work the first time and he has a girlfriend who cheated and your husband cheated on you?
If a husband told his wife he cheated 3 or 4 times on her when you know it was about 20 times should you tell his wife?
No, because if you tell the wife then she will go to the husband and tell him that you said that he cheated 20 times and then they both will come right back to you like you the bad person and they will curse you out and stuff like that . So , if a couple is having a problem then don't tell the wife that the husband cheated 20 times.
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
* Communication is the key in any healthy relationship so you should be asking your husband this question. He could be over jealous, or, he could have been cheated on before from someone else. There are just too many variables. Sit down with your husband and try to keep the conversation calm and get to the root of the problem.
I cheated on my husband but im in love with a woman what should I do I have a hard time saying goodbye But he is giving me a deadline of tomorriw to stop seeing my lover?
Should you stay if your husband cheated on you gave you an STD and do drugs or divorce him or be by his side and get him help?
Your husband supposedly has a baby on the way and the girl is due in 2 weeks How should you handle it?
A genetics test should be done to be sure the baby is really his. If it is then being married to you makes no different and he should support the baby he helped bring into the world. As you know this is a serious problem and you and your husband are going to have communicate and tell him he needs to be honest about how he feels about this. If the genetics test prove he…
Give your husband an alternative of seeking professional help for his drug problem and if he refuses it would be wise to leave him. If you don't leave him then you are enabling his behavior. Drugs can do strange things to people's minds and he may have cheated on you more than once. If you don't have respect for yourself then no one else will. You deserve better.
What should you do if your husband cheated on you with his ex-wife of 2 weeks before you were married and 5 months after you were married he cheated with an ex-girlfriend?
* It depends on the individual man. If he has cheated more than once then he will cheat again. People are only human and some weaken and cheat, but learn that the grass on the other side of the fence isn't always greener. This is a signal to the man's wife that they have marriage problems and they should seek marriage counseling and learn good communication skills. If your husband cheated once then he's still…
If your husband cheated on you, you'd either give him another chance for your marriage, or break up with him. If your husband cheats you will have to decide if the marriage is worth saving. In many cases, if a man cheats he will more than likely cheat again and you should move on. If he truly wants to change then you can set up marriage counseling.
Should you tell the wife of the guy that her husband cheated on her with you since they were engaged and married now?
Why did he cheat on you and you forgave him he then married you and the day he came back from honeymoon he cheated again?
Well since he cheated he should either be trying to get you back or you shouldn't be with him at all. That is unless you have worked through it and are ready to move on. Honestly he should be crawling back to you because he messed up you did not. If he wasn't going to be completely faithful he shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Sorry if this seems a little harsh or…
How do you deal with a husband who's cheated with the same girl for three years and now wants you to forget everything?
Did my husband cheat on me because he lied to me about being somewhere he was not and when I confronted him he changed his story and said he did not know why he lied?
When a husband or wife lies to their spouse the automatic reaction is that that spouse has cheated on them and it's because cheating has become the Olympic sport of Western countries so it is no wonder the wife or husband feels they may have been cheated on. However, if your husband has not lied before to your knowledge and has been attentive to you for a long while then it would be wise for…
Answer If he hasn't cheated before then it's time to sit down and communicate because something is lacking in your marriage or, perhaps your husband is simply trying to recoup their youth by having an affair with a younger woman. If he hasn't cheated before this then try to work things out and if you don't think you can handle that route then separate for a few months to see what happens and if you…
There is no doubt that finding out one's husband had an affair hurts, but, many people have had to go through this and their marriage survived. If your husband has never cheated before then he is worth giving another chance, but only if he agrees to see a marriage counselor and also learn tools so the two of you can communicate on a better level regarding how each of you feels. If your husband has…
What do you do if you are a female and you find out that your boyfriend cheated on you with another male?
What would you do if you found out your boyfriend cheated on you with another girl? Why is there any difference? Why should the reactions (or actions) be different from any other person cheating on another just because it's a guy cheating on his "girl" with another guy? No matter who he cheated with, another girl, a guy, it's still cheating and should be treated the same. The next decision is up to you.
No spouse should have to put up with their spouse cheating or continuing to cheat. You can sit down with your husband and tell him you refuse to put up with his cheating and if he continues then you will file for divorce. No man or woman in a marriage is to stay in a marriage where one is disloyal. You should have self confident enough to know what you want and do not want…