I am so sorry you are going through this. I have been divorced before and am happily married to my 2nd husband. Love does hurt. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but I shoot straight from the hip (I get angry when nice people like yourself don't deserve it and get hurt) and I feel he's using you as a "pit stop." If he can come back into your life anytime he wants and you end up in bed together then I guess he'll keep coming back. One thing about men is, many of them don't care where they get sex as long as they do. It's confusing to women because sometimes it's difficult to tell if the guy really cares for you or it's all about sex. It's possible your husband does love you and he's confused so you have to "untie the knot" and here is how. Take a risk! Sit down with him and communicate how you feel, then let him have his say re his feelings. Tell him he isn't coming back into this marriage without some commitment and trying to get along and you won't put up with him splitting up every time there is a problem in your marriage. Stand strong, sure-footed (even if you are shaking inside) and don't ever let anyone control your life or take your dignity away. You aren't asking him to commit a crime, but to commit to a relationship and the sanctity of the marriage vows he took. Meanwhile girl, get loaded for bear! That means, get a new look. Get your hair done in a different style; have a girlfriend over for the evening and try different types of make-up (less is best) and buy a couple of pieces of clothing (good prices out there if you know where to look) and besides making yourself feel better it may just knock the socks off your husband. Let him see what he's missing! Sometimes it's easy if a woman is raising kids, cleaning house (some working as well) to look your best all the time, but it can be done on occasion. It's not good (I'm not accusing you of this) to let yourself go and that includes the husband or boyfriend. I go around in jeans or sweats during the day with no make-up on (letting my skin breath) but my hair is always nice and I keep myself in as good shape as I can without being a prisoner of exercise and I eat a fairly good diet. I can't stop the aging process, but, I can look the best for my age. So far, so good. LOL When I go out shopping, out for the evening or even visiting a girlfriend, I'll always take the time to look fairly good, but probably dress in jeans and a nice sweater or blouse, have make-up on and my hair done nicely (I do my own hair.) I love to dress up for fancy special occasions because it makes me feel like a "sexy mama!" LOL Life is more interesting when we, as women, look once in awhile out there to see how we can improve upon ourselves. That doesn't mean plastic surgery, crazy diets, but just general things. Women should look neat, like they care about themselves and again, that goes for the men. Who wants to look at a guy sitting across from you with a dazed, unshaven look on his puss, and stains down his T-shirt, with no hygienic matter going on. Fat, thin, tall, short, doesn't matter. Be the best you can be! I really wish you luck hon, because I know you must feel lonely and probably think you have failed in the marriage (when you haven't), but remember ... it takes two! Go for it girl and stand strong! Good luck Marcy
Not much. If he is serious and won't go for meditation or counseling then you have little say in the matter.
it means that only God can save your marriage and you NEED OUT!!!! It most likely means either that your husband loves you, but needs a little more excitement in a certain area of his life or your husband stands to lose alot in the divorce. Its cheaper for him this way.
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In the divorce case, Heather Mills was a little too greedy and wanted far too much of her share. But the judge convinced her that she did not have the right to ask for anything, just because her husband was Paul McCartney. And in the end, she got a smaller amount then what she asked for.
Not if you live in a no-fault state. Even if you don't, it sounds as though you would have little trouble. It might be a bit more complicated.
Divorce effects children. Geography has little to do with it.
Your husband isn't narcissistic, but just a plain old jerk! You didn't explain if this was his daughter or yours from a former relationship or marriage and you didn't explain what type of sexual comments he is making, so please explain further if you should choose to answer my post. I'll be watching for it on my "watchlist." A little more info is needed here. Hope you repost. If you witnessed the inappropriate comments, then you definitely know what you have to do--leave! Anything else, you need to talk to your child--or take them to a third party--to see what happened. Your responsibility is to the care and the safety of your child, so however it is with the husband, you will have to leave if it is true. This really is not something you can warn the person about and hope they don't do it again--or that the sexual comments escalate into physical contact. == ==
You can refuse to be served. Refusing to accept divorce documents will not stop a divorce. Your spouse can get a divorce whether you cooperate or not. It may take a little longer. If you continue to ignore the proceeding your spouse can eventually obtain a divorce in your absence and your interests will not be represented.You can refuse to be served. Refusing to accept divorce documents will not stop a divorce. Your spouse can get a divorce whether you cooperate or not. It may take a little longer. If you continue to ignore the proceeding your spouse can eventually obtain a divorce in your absence and your interests will not be represented.You can refuse to be served. Refusing to accept divorce documents will not stop a divorce. Your spouse can get a divorce whether you cooperate or not. It may take a little longer. If you continue to ignore the proceeding your spouse can eventually obtain a divorce in your absence and your interests will not be represented.You can refuse to be served. Refusing to accept divorce documents will not stop a divorce. Your spouse can get a divorce whether you cooperate or not. It may take a little longer. If you continue to ignore the proceeding your spouse can eventually obtain a divorce in your absence and your interests will not be represented.
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The Dominican Republic will grant a divorce to out of towners really fast. They can have your divorce ready in as little as one day and that is really fast. Just depends on how quick you need the divorce.
As soon as your divorce is though you can get married to your bf. If you have to wait for your divorce, you should start learning a little German :-)
Answer Maybe before heading for a divorce court, a little talking between the two of you is due. Ask him hard questions. IS he cheating on you and watch his eyes, when he answers you. People who tend to tell the truth look you right in the eyes when they answer you. People who lie tend to look away.