What should you do when you have a crush on some one but you have a boyfriend who you love very much?

Answer 1

i really think you should just ignore this crush you have on this person. Because it would really be kind of cheating if you think about someone else like that. I mean just be thankful that you already have someone you really love and adore. Sort your feelings out and let it out or else it'll bother you. Keep reminding yourself that its just a crush, it'll go away later on. It might help if you talk to your boyfriend, i mean he should understand. Just tell him that you have this 'little' crush on someone but his your lover and tell him that it won't change and that you just want his help on how to deal with it or just talk to someone. ;)

Answer 2

You should decide who you would be the happiest with. If you really think that you and your current boyfriend are right for each other, then try and forget the other boy and focus on your boyfriend. But if you think that you and the other guy would be happier together, tell your boyfriend that things weren't working out and that you like someone else, but be nice about it, because your boyfriend has feelings, and you should still care for him because you were going out. Make sure the other boy likes you back before you tell your boyfriend

Answer 3

This can be a tricky situation, since both of you have been together for a long period of time. There is nothing wrong with having feelings for someone else, this is natural. However, ask yourself how much you love your bf, and how you would feel like living life without him. Do not make any hasty decisions. In the nend, do what is best for both of you.

Answer 4

This is what I would do. Ok I would just calmly ask my boyfriend if I could talk to him, and explain to him as nicely as I could telling him I like another guy. And see how he reacts. If you like him and love your boyfriend, just become friends with the other guy and stay with your boyfriend and go from there. But if you feel you like the other guy more than your boyfriend just ask him to please stay your friend through thick and thin. And see if the other guy likes you. If he does try dating him. If it doesn't work out, you can always go back to your ex.

Answer 5

Never leave the one you love(your boyfriend) for the one you like (your crush)!

Answer 6

It is common to have feelings for your ex, but after awhile and being treated like a princess by your new boyfriend you'll forget all about your ex (he is your ex for a reason).

Answer 7

Well if you really do truly love this person, you should tell him/her. They may have a boyfriend, but maybe they secretly like you too. You should at least tell your true feelings to them.

Answer 8

dump the first one

Answer 9

cheat