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Understand that your boyfriend is a father and is trying to look out for his son, he doesn't want people walking in and out of his life, that could be hard on a kid.
His friends, maybe he doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of you, friends know a lot about you, even some things that should be kept a secret.
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You may want to question how committed he is to being in a relationship with you. By the time people move in together, they've usually known each other long enough to meet each other's relatives and friends. If he refuses to introduce you to either, he doesn't see you as a long-term prospect.
You say "Hay guys this is my boyfriend ______." If you don't think they'll react well. Tell them you have a boyfriend before you introduce him.
I think that the girlfriend should definitely introduce her boyfriend to her family first.
Well, his friends probably think your uncool and if he's your boyfriend, you should talk with him. It doesn't matter what they think, it matters what he thinks.
If your friends are warning you that your boyfriend is not a nice guy and you should break up with him then they are seeing the reality of his character and love has blinded you so it would be a good idea to listen to your friends. If your friends just think he does not fit in with their crowd and your boyfriend is a nice guy, then your friends are not your true friends and you should remain loyal to your boyfriend. Be wise, take a second look at your boyfriend and consider what your friends are saying about him if they don't feel he treats you well.
It sounds like he has a trust issue and is very overbering. I would be concerned.
If you are starting to like your friends boyfriend then I would recommend not trying to get into any relationship with his/her boyfriend you might be rejected and either way you will more than likely loose your friends relationship.
if you think he likes you, you need to talk to him then your friend
Well you can tell them, I think we should be friends.
I think you shouldn't be mad because maybe there just friends Dont you have friends that are boys?
He may not want to introduce you to his friends or families because he may think they will embarrass him by telling you funny stories about him.
Your friend may not have as many friends as you think he does or, he may not realize he should be introducing you to his friends. It is up to you to communicate to him that you are wondering why he enjoys seeing your friends, but does not introduce you to his friends. You hold the key to this problem which is good communication skills. Go to the source .. you friend!
Ignore your friends cuz it's what u think that counts. Ask ur friends why they don't like ur boyfriend, then explain why u like him. Ur friends won't say anything gainst him now!