What type of situations or places are women the most comfortable and the least standoffish when a guy hits on them?

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It isn't the place so much as the bad lines guys can come up with. Just be yourself and don't go for the "cool" stuff to say. Don't become a rolling drunk and be obnoxious. If you like a girl walk up to her or sit beside her at a bar (if she's alone) and strike up a conversation. Be pleasant and ask about her. Most women don't like the guy that looks like he's been around the block a few times; thinks he knows everything about women; has a snappy line to give or is all over her and is controlling. A confident man can come in and you can smell it off him, so if you aren't super confident don't even try to be. Many women like shy men or men that you can talk about anything with. Here's a good tip ... women like to talk and we like men to know we have brains and we aren't a "girl toy" for every guy that comes around. Most women are onto guys more in this generation so you've got your work cut-out for you. Also, realize that women are more cautious about their safety, so take it slow and easy getting to know her and if you like her and she seems interested get her phone # and go out on a real date. Good luck Merry Christmas Marcy I disagree Marcy! The place or situation is VERY important. For example, a women would be very uncomfortable if you approached her on the street when it's dark out. Of course you are right, but I was thinking of "places to meet women" as the poster had instructed. I think most of us don't want to meet anyone alone or on a dark street. Thanks for bringing it up and one can never be too safe. Merry Christmas Marcy