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When a girl is unhappy in a relationship why will she tell her friends the problem but not her own boyfriend whom she expects to magically read her mind?

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2005-11-21 05:25:04
2005-11-21 05:25:04

We tell our friend about our problems with our boyfriend, because they have a more open minded. We use our friends as a sounding board, and see if they feel about the situation the same as we do. But so many times girlfriends, feel the same way we do because we are females. Females go by what our hearts tell us. So many times Males dont see things the same way we do. What might look like problems to us, may not look as problems to them, or not as serious. So many times guys, blow us off when we try to explain how we feel, and what is bothering us. If something is bothering you, you need to tell him, but maybe dont go into so much detail with him as if you would with your girl friends. Males attention span is so limited, unless sex is involved. But if he truly loves you, he will work it out. Good Luck!

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