She is being very honest with you although I am sure that it wasn't the answer you wanted to hear. I would continue to be friends with her, and perhaps, some time in the future she may see more in you. Right now she wants to be free and be able to see who she wants. If you can't handle being around her because of your feelings, then I suggest you move on and go out with friends and have a little fun. One day you will meet someone else. I had a good male friend and I felt we were like brother and sister, but it turned out his feelings were stronger for me than I could ever imagine. He finally told me, and like this girl, I told him the truth. It didn't injure our friendship at all although I am sure his feelings were hurt. We still managed to have together. Later, he met a wonderful girl, got married, has 2 children and they have been married for 36 years. He didn't let me stop him! Good luck Marcy I don't think you can..So treasure the friendship and find love somewhere else.
question cont- and now you have strong feelings for him, but hes in a long distance relationship with someone whom hes never met, yet cheated on them with you, what do you do?
just tell him
Just be friends with him because if you try to get him to go back out with you then he might not even want to be your friend anymore.
Try befriending that person and if that works, you may become best friends. Then that person will have strong feelings for you.
he could have the same feelings. or he could not. you will never know unless you try. i had the same thing happen. i liked my best friend, he liked me as well. we went out for a couple of monthes, and mutually agreed we are better off just as friends. it wont be the end of the world if he doesnt like you, if your friendship is strong enough it wont hurt it.
As best friends, you already love each other. But if you have strong feelings for that person and " truly love" them back , then consider dating or having a deeper relationship. If you don't share the same feelings, then tell them "I love you too, your such a great friend." Its a perfect, indiscreet way to say you just wanna be best friends and nothing more.
Yes, it is possible for a married man to have some feelings about a girl friend that he had an affair with as they had some good memories together. However, this does not mean he loves her, but probably misses her as a friend. In time, memories fade and hopefully the marriage is strong enough to survive. Good communication skills to discuss each others feelings is extremely important and perhaps marriage counseling would help.
MIGHT BE ABLE TO BRING IT UP CALMY. BUT ITS REALLY NOT YOUR PLACE TO SAY ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY IF THERE GOOD FRIENDS.
They were actually renesmes feelings of love Bella only loved him as a friend Renesme loved him as a soul mate.
It means that your really close with your friend and he has started to have feelings for you. But it also means that it could ruin your friendship unless he has strong feeling for you. You need to think it through and find out if you have feelings for him, too.
If you have been best friends, you should be able to say every secret to them...best friends always understands problems or troubleseven if you love them, you never know they might love you back.Just tell them (in private) that you have strong feelings for them.I hope that helped x
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