Where can a pregnant 16-year-old female get married to the 16-year-old father without parental consent?

Once you have the child you are considered an adult by law. The father may not be. You should check with your state's laws and find out how the father can marry without parent's consent. I really hope you understand what you're commiting to. If you love this person and want to marry them, which means forever, then two years wouldn't seem so far away.