Where is turn signal relay in a 98 Volvo v70xc and how do you get to it without breaking anything?

The turn signal relay is part of the emergency flasher switch. Using a small pick tool you simply pull the switch, located in the center console right in front of the shifter knob, straight out. The relay is part of the switch and is replaced as a unit. Once the switch is removed simply unplug the connector on the back of the switch.