Why are some women attracted to clergy who wear the black suit and the collar?

The clergy is peaceful, enlightening, pure and in ways innocent. They never raise their voices, nor critisize and tell you to love your fellow man. They make the world feel like a safe place and give you tools to have faith in God to conquer anything out in this tough world. Like a child crawling on her father's knee looking up innocently at a powerful face of strength and feeling protected forever it is that child within us that comes out when some women look at a clergy with an attraction. It could also be that a woman knows she really can't have a relationship with the clergy (especially if you are Catholic, a Monk, etc.) and therefore it's safe. You can fantasize about it. It brings peace to your soul, yet a stir of excitement. Answer I find this concept completely disturbing and cannot at all understand it. There are plenty of other people out there to be attracted to.