Why do you fall out of love with your husband?
It could just be that you just drew apart and aren't as close as you once were. There are many reasons but you should talk to him and find out where thigs went wrong. Good Luck!
When your husband falls out of love, he'll be more distant and he'll give bad or NO sex.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Me and my wife were on the verge of divorce when i left for Iraq i get back and things have turned around i couldn't love her more. Remind him why he fell for you in the first place.
Dedicate yourself to making your husband happy. Unless he is a loser, he will respond by dedicating himself to making you happy, and that's about the best a marriage can be!
You are lumping two separate issues into one question. Frankly, I'm pretty sure that you're confused about what 'love' is, but that's a different issue again. If you find yourself 'out of love' with your husband, what have you done to make your marriage better? One of the most important parts of being married is to be able to communicate with each other when you aren't happy. If you were once attracted to him and… Read More
That means he has changed his preferences. Relationship works that way, you love someone till you find a better one.
Emotions and express shows that your husband love you.
If you are still thinking about him most of the time. If you really feel you can't stay without him.
If your husband says he doesn't love you anymore get divorced ,you need to move on from a loveless marriage before that do go in for couple counselling
Once married I am sure you know that there are so many distractions with paying bills, raising children, stress, etc. People can change in a marriage because of it, but it doesn't mean they love you any less. We all get embroiled in our lives and sometimes we forget to take a good hard look at ourselves and our mates. We are the hardest on each other. The only true way you will ever know… Read More
If you have to ask....it doesn't look good. BUT step back and look at your relationship from the outside. Is he still the same man you married? If not what changes are there in him? Can you accept these changes? Is the relationship abusive verbally, physically or emotionally? If they are minor idiosyncrasies, can you work through or talk to him about them? If hes abusing you in any way walk away, marriage should be… Read More
The best advice would be to get some advice (preferably professional) sorting things out with what is wrong with your marriage. If you find that marriage is not something you wish to continue with, bail out. But set aside the issue of the ex-boyfriend during the time you get the advice. Be sure to tell the adviser of the ex-boyfriend, though, so all your cards are on the table. (It is beyond foolish to be… Read More
you don't want to be around him anymore/ find joy around him , and you start to fall for another person. ----------------------------------------------------- When you fail to practice loving him, you will inevitably fall out of love with your husband. You decide to be concerned with his welfare, build a life together with him, make love to him, be your best "you" with him. Enjoy all you can and ignore the small irritants. Make loving him… Read More
I'm not married but this doesn't seem like a marriage problem just personal space problem, if you and your signifiant other have an altercation where he shuts you out just give the space to cool down. If he shutting you out it because he cares for you, and doesn't want to say more to possibly hurt you or anger each other more than u have. Just let him vent and breathe and think about things… Read More
There is no sure sign to tell if your husband doesn't love as " love" isn't a feeling... Love is an action word please take a while and eveluate yourself are you doing everything you should be doing as a fie to the best of your abilities... if so you are the only person that knows your husband you have to communicate with him on his level ( not yours) last but not least pray… Read More
If he will agree to work with you on the relationship and take some time, you are golden. It takes two and we are not always fully in love. It ebbs and flows. If either or both of you have been acting badly, straighten up and be kind to one another.
The best way to tell if your husband loves you is if he shows you respect. He and you are allowed to get angry every once in awhile, but if it happens all the time, it's time to take stock of your situation and make a plan to address it. All marraiges go through ups and downs, but if there are patterns of behavior that have changed dramatically, you need to discuss them with him… Read More
Not everyone is mean to their ex-husband.If the settlement was mutual ,the exes can remain good friends and in touch. Although mostly it ends badly.It may be because of a bitter divorce , or maybe because your marriage broke up due to his cheating on you with another woman.Or maybe you both lost interest in your marriage.There are a number of factors.You gotta list them ! :)
That's a complex question. What happened to his "first love". If she died you may have a little trouble getting him to forget her. But that's normal and not necessarily a bad thing. If she just dumped him and he's still enamoured I suggest that he is not emotionally mature enough to be in a serious relationship.
if u still love her you should defend for her
you have already made a miss take by divorsing her . . . .any how u can speak to .. .
The following answer presupposes that your partner has not abused you, or been unfaithful, in any way. This is an issue that comes down, in part, to one's own attitude. It all depends on whether you have changed in yourself, your attitude and expectations, or whether you still maintain the same attitude you have always had in your marriage. If you think that, because you have never loved your husband, it cannot happen, then it… Read More
* Love has never been defined. There are so many different types of love: family, siblings, friends, spouses. You actually still do love your husband, but the zing has gone out of your marriage and with the stress of every day life it's extremely important to communicate well with each other and take time out to do things together. It could be a simple walk in the park; a dinner and movie; having guests over… Read More
What if you don't know if you ever loved your husband and you feel like your just sticking it out to spare his feelings?
Ok listen up I am a 12 year old and my mom has a husband but he is my step dad and I feel like she doesn't like him either now please if ur not happy what else is there u r the woman I hate my step dad and he doesn't deserve my mom she is just hanging on by a thread cuz of all da papers but honestly if he isn't the one… Read More
he stays in touch, and every few days/weeks it feels like you guys are becoming more and more in touch, kind of like when you first met. if the space is growing he will feel it and make a bold move to close the gap, and it should be fairly noticeable.
Is it ok for your children to meet your soon to be ex husbands new girlfriend who will be living with your ex soon?
Yes, its ok, it sounds like they are in a serious relationship and they should be told very gently. Im sure they are aware of the divorce. You sit down with them and age appropriately, tell them that parents move on with their personal lives and find other adults to be involved with and in a few days you will be meeting so/so. Answer any questions they have and this should be done with both… Read More
If i were in this position, i would pull him aside and say "i think we need to talk" or something like that. Then if you say i think your falling in love with someone right to his face then you might get the real truth or maybe not. If he says says he isn't and you still think he is lying put your foot down, and really try to get the truth out of… Read More
First of all... is best not to panic, because of the fact that it might lead to something truly unwanted and unnecessary... When he says that... there's a big chance that he's just bored of the relationship and needs a bit more spice to it... Now, I don't mean to be negative but is always best not to sugarcoat a thing when it comes to this situation... With this being said... There might be someone… Read More
I feel it is almost impossible to accurately know the true answer to that question. I think that most importantly you need to ask yourself "Have you been Lovable?" if you have and you still do not feel any love back from your husband, for sure you need to ask him and make sure he knows what your emotional needs are and the ones that are not being met. Answer Peter gave you some solid… Read More
Answer That's a hard question to answer as you know your husband better than I do, so watch him, even ask him and see how he answers you. When he answers watch his eyes. If he doesn't look you right in the eyes, good chance is that he is lying or not exactly being truthful. If that doesn't do it for you, you could always try to follow him to see where he goes and… Read More
Well first you should marry your husband for love in the first place.
What do you do when you are no longer attracted physically or sexually to your husband but you do still love him?
You talk and could decide not to have sex any more, but do not be surprised if your relation will deteriorate. If you want to save your relation, you have to fix your sexual problems as long as your partner still has the need.
I guess, because, you're not hot....
no it isn't unless u know that he doesnt love you. if u know that ur ex still loves u than maybe but like people say its better to be with some one that loves u than someone u love but doesnt love u back.
Why do you want to? That's abusive to throw someone out. It's better for you and him!
It depends, is he still hanging around your house and giving you presents? if yes then I'd say he still has a thing for you
What if your husband tells you he wants to know if he is still in love with you or not but he wants to make love with you?
It seems as though he feels sex is very intimate and wants to see how connection is between you and if you both still have the passion - he may miss the passion and possibly with that connection for him comes his emotions and love.
When he says it, if he says it, you don't believe he's saying like he used to.
Because you shouldn't be dating a married woman.
most men dont know what to say to a women when she is crying they cant handle it so they get pissed off does not mean he dosent love you. from a man that has the same problem
all husbands love their wifes. that's why they got married.
You cant make anyone love, if you don't love yourself first nor should you put yourself in a marriage, where there was no love. Don't second guess whether your husband loves you or not. You didn't say in what age bracket you are in, but after 5 plus years of marriage sometimes between work, busy schedules, raising children, running errands some couples pass each other like two ships in the night. That doesn't mean either… Read More
of course you can. if you have what it takes!good luck!!
You can't force your husband to love you; he either does or doesn't but it has to be the right kind of love. Test him first to see if cares for you or loves you by dressing up nice and going out without him and see if YOU really love him. Than if you are absolutely sure that you do with the passionate, can't live without you, I am 100% sure without a doubt in… Read More
Some men have difficulty expressing their feelings, however, if he said it in the past and suddenly stopped, you may have cause for concern. I would imagine that there are other behaviors he is displaying that concern you or you wouldn't have asked this question. He may simply assume that you know he loves you. Some people believe actions speak louder than words. The best source for an answer to this question would be to… Read More
He puts things aside to liten and care gentle touch and praying on his side for your betterment. Displays affection sometimes since a myriad of conditions such as autism aspergers and stoics character does not permit all the time sometimes a little hug or kiss othertimes turns away and punishes with lack of interest and conflicts drivin by ignorance or sighns of uncaring behavior ie other women etc.
First you need to be able to accept the answer, And what it will mean to you. Your family structure can be challenged. Are you ready for that. If your not. Then do not ask until you are ready. If you are ready. Then you should trust in what you know about your husband. Can you tell if he is telling you the truth ?? If not - Don't do it. If you can... then… Read More
If your husband threatened your girlfriend on the phone to stay out of our business should you stay in the marriage?
Verbal abuse wears many forms. Isolating you from your friends is a form of control freakery. If this is an isolated event, you may overlook it, forgive, and forget. But if this is a repetitive behavior - he is an abuser.
All I can say is what I would do and that's pack his bags, then he won't have to spend anytime with you, will he?- problem solved!!- Unless of course you are an unreasonable, neurotic, clinging, paranoid, agrophobic-that is.
if he's still in love with you, he'll make you feel special, and do random romantic acts to keep the sparks alive
Your husband is cheating on you! It's obvious! Another thought: Your husband may or may not be cheating on you, but the line "I love you, but I'm not 'in love' with you," usually means he has one foot out the door. He's not committed to you as a husband and partner. Ask him what his intentions are. You deserve to know. You also deserve to be with a man who is 'in love' with… Read More