Many women feel they can "fix" their boyfriend -they may even have a psychological need to fix them, usually coupled with codependency. They may also exhibit enabling behavior. When the abused person takes the abuse of the abuser, they may feel like they are "special" because they're "the only person in the world who could handle the abuse." They also may feel comfortable in the abuse, may feel that if they leave the person, they will be shamed by their family, friends, or community. For more information, see this site: http://www.uoregon.edu/~counsel/abuse.htm
Tell him you want him back and if he doesn't want you after that then find someone else.
to control you. abusers want total control
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
Just be honest with him & tell him how you feel if you want to get back together.Ask him if he likes you tell him you want to get back together & be patient with him.Or you could just bang him.
Keep things casual and simple.
This is the way they work, they start off being nice to work there way into your heart then when they have you the way they want you they slowly work through being abusive to control you
If not abusive, it is at least unstable. You may want to re-think continuing with it.
It is unfortunate that you were cheated on and then he left you but it may be the best for everyone at this time if you parted ways as it seems he is not ready for a committed relationship.
just do it, if u both want 2 try it again, then u should. there is no harm in going back out with ur ex, just don't be disappointed if it doesn't fully work out.
If he won't talk to you, you should leave him alone. He doesn't owe you anything. You can't make someone like you.
Why do you want to? That's abusive to throw someone out. It's better for you and him!
Frankly, why would you want him too - he is your ex for a reason and he has been sleeping with others - I would scrap that and move on!!!