Because love and pain become one in the same when you have been abused. You may eel as if you failed some how. You did not. Speak to God, Meditate, do some yoga if you get in touch with you, the pain will leave.
Kick them out and if they don't leave call the cops.
No. absolutely not. If you are being abused the person who is abusing you does not truly love you. the Abuser makes you feel responsible for his/her actions. therefore making you believe you are in love with that person.
Men (and Women) can be abusive (physically or mentally) for many different reasons. Most abusers were abused themselves: usually as children. Reading in depth psychological research could help further your understanding. Most abusive partners - in relationships- feed on hurting the other person and then making it "all better." This is a control mechanism. The one who hurts you is also the only one who makes you feel better. Most abusive people are insecure and damaged. If you are in an abusive relationship, it is best to get out. If you feel that you are unsafe and leaving would only make matters worse. Contact your local police precinct or call the national Domestic Abuse hotline. 1 800 799 7233 - someone can help.
If you understand that the abusive man is really after power you can recognize that making someone look like a fool is part of the effort to maintain control.
you have bruises all over your body, cant be bothered making dinner for them and you seriously dont give one @!#\ about the person. Hope this helps. your spouse will make you feel like crap and you will begin to doubt yourself.
It is called an improvement.
what is the relationship between decision making and planning.?
Yes, you should leave the relationship. That is because he is somehow making you change your view of what you do with good intentions to be something wrong. Eventually, you won't be able to do anything right, and you will not feel good about yourself. He cannot be right all the time! Actually, this is verbally abusive behavior and you are caught in a vicious cycle. Read Patricia Evan's book, "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" for further insight.
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
In my opinion, yes. When your boyfriend or husband keeps you from making decisions based on your own free will, he is essentially holding you prisoner, though not always in a physical sense but in a psychologically abusive manner. My advice is to get out of the relationship as soon as you can and be as safe as you can.
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A series of laws, passed that prohibited anyone from making "disloyal" or "abusive" remarks about the US government.