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If the affair has been going on for 3 years, then chances are, it's not just about sex. Anyone who would carry on an affair for an extended period of time like that obviously cannot be trusted. And honestly, you have to wonder about a woman who is perfectly happy to be the "other woman" in her boyfriend's life.

It seems those two deserve each other.

Thank you, I agree...I guess I just didn't want to believe that he LOVED her. I need to get on with my life and stop believing his lies. He has always been a huge flirt, and said that he was a "people person..." God Bless and please pray for me? My name is Regina

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Q: Why does your husband have a 3 year affair keep it from you then treat you horribly when they get caught do they love the other woman or is it just sex after that long?
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