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Hmmm. Is he really in a "loveless" marriage or is he just telling you he is? There is the possibility that he is just too much of a coward to leave, and even if that were the case, would you want to be with someone who appears to be incapable of being true to himself as well as those he claims to love? don't you deserve better than that? I would be concerned that he isn't being straightforward with himself, you and his wife. When people truly love someone (and themselves) they are honest no matter what the cost.

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What happened in the beginning rarely has anything to do with what is happening now. A man who is not prone to cheat, but ends up cheating is probably not getting something he needs from his wife. It could be the emotional or physical relationship that he lacks. If the marraige is worth saving, don't stop sleeping with him because of this affair, it only makes things worse. Second, go to counceling and start working this out. A 3rd party (therapist/councelor) can help pinpoint where the problem is and help you work it out together. If the man is prone to cheat and has cheated before (or you knew he cheated before the marraige), then there is no excuse. Divorce him and find a new man who will treat you right.

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Love isn't a choice, it's just what we feel. It wasnt his fault if he fell in love, but it is his fault if he does something about it.

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Because he is an immature imbecile.

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