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Why would a married man stop talking 2 his ex mistress when you know he wanted to stay friends with her but since he got caught cheating doesnt talk to her anymore?
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∙ 13y ago
very unlikely...unless that man is VERY forgiving or is desperate
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You got to be kidding right? If your husband told you that he don't want to loose his mistress friendship, he never really wanted to stop talking to her. Do you think if you let him stay friend with his ex mistress, he wouldn't think of getting back together again? If you let it, guess what you will give them both the key to continued what they shared together. Doesn't it bothers you that this woman shared the same man with you if you will stay with your husband? You are more braver than me, because the thought of it made me sick in my stomach. Yes my husband once told me from his email while he was on the trip to the east coast and I quote " what's wrong if she become a Christian sister." And that's when I really gotten sick after reading his email to me.
The best solution for you is tell him you don't like the idea, or just tell him what you think, and if he still pursue it, maybe divorce? Think about it..
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∙ 7y ago
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∙ 14y agoI hope they have both learned their lesson and stay away from each other their friendship must end with the affair. You can not stay friends with your ex lover to many feelings linger and it could possible start up again.
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This are the mistakes that us people needs to realize that a man, married or not can't have no friendship to women. One way or the other no matter how close of a friend the two of you become, both of you already know that being close as friends will not help the two of you.
Most men loves to say," were only friends" an innocent relationship that they will ignore because of who they are. And because of this friendship, they thought being closer will not be so bad. In short what this married man have is a good, close friend with benefit.
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∙ 13y agoOK, your obviously the same person that keeps writing a million questions about an ex mistress and the husband and wife... its a clear assumption that YOU are the mistress and honestly maybe the guy doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore because your "over the top" obsessive! like c'mon seriously!.... Who cares about the who's and why's and where's and when's..... just move on and find a guy that Doesn't have a wife or girlfriend.
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Wow! I'm glad you told her. Thank you. Now lady like what this person said stop already. Your married lover got caught and you have to deal with it. Why married man no one can really say. I will give you a nice and sincere compliment here and this is not an insult, you sure remind me of my husband's ex mistress, she still trying very hard to ruin him through me. If I don't know better I will say, she might be you, but I know better..
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∙ 14y ago- In the first place cheating is selfish (cheating on the wife and using the mistress for one's own needs) and unless one can promise a future to this mistress then no, it is time for you to move on. Most mistresses don't want to be just friends (they generally have enough friends) and it would be love, commitment or nothing.
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∙ 6y agoGood question! Prince Charles stayed faithful to Camilla throughout his marriage to Princess Diana.
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∙ 14y agobecause now that he was caught he knows he was wrong and he doesnt want to make the same mistake again so he is just completely ignoring the mistress
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∙ 12y agoShe is/was getting something out of that relationship with him that she doesn't want to lose. Maybe she wants to try to reignite what is now gone. I wouldn't trust it.
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∙ 14y agoIt depends on the guy
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∙ 13y agohe's embarrassed because he got caught
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Why would a married man get upset when his mistress does not want to be friends?
A married man who expects his mistress to just be friends is either unintelligent or has a high opinion of himself. Married men who cheat and have a mistress on the side generally use that mistress for a sexual relationship only, but some mistresses believe that the man truly loves her over his wife. The man should stop cheating and consider other people's feelings other than his own.
When will Cheating spouse discuss cheating?
Spouse who cheat will never tell everything they did with their mistress, specially if this married man has to go back to his wife. He will tell some but not the one that you wanted to know. He might add or take something of to that story he told you so you will not bug him anymore.
Will a married cheating man's wife find out about his affair?
Eventually, yes, the wife will find out about the affair. She will either find out on her own or one of their friends may see him with his mistress and tell her, but she will find out! Cheating is selfish and cheap and shows that this married man is thinking of no one but himself and his mistress is nothing special and eventually he will cheat on her as well. There are losers all around when married men/women cheat.ANSWER:Yes she will but not at first, especially if his always busy at work, or busy with his monkey business, and no time for his wife. If he don't stop before she finds out, his problem will become heavier and their life will never be normal anymore..
After a married man gets caught cheating and tells his mistress that he cares about her and when she ask y he says because u've been friends for so long why would he tell her that?
So he wouldn't hurt her feelings and not get slapped
If a married man stops talking to his mistress after he gets caught cheating would karma come back on him for it?
mos def
If a married man told his ex mistress when I see you I am going to think about what we did does that mean he does not think about it when he goes home knowing he was caught cheating?
It's possible that he still thinks about it when he goes home, but his comment suggests that seeing his ex mistress may trigger specific memories or thoughts related to their past actions. It's important to consider the context and communication style between the individuals involved to fully understand the meaning behind his statement.
Is it normal for a mistress and a married man not to be friends anymore once the affair is discovered and why?
i guess it is normal i mean, i guess they might not be friends anymore because they're ashamed ANSWER: A 100% normal, if this man is trying to deal and undo what he done to his wife. But if this married man never care he will find the way to reconnect with his mistress. ANSWER: God yes, it is normal and only the right thing to do. I don't know the whole story of the couples and the mistress but this married man needs to correct or even rebuild his relationship to his wife. The ex mistress needs to be out of his life, she will not help him if all she wants is for them to chit chat like an old friends. The other woman already helped this man to ruined the life of his wife and her role is only his friend with benefit. Affair is fun but with consequences, its time for this ex mistress to go and stop all contact even if the married man fell in love with her, or wants to talk to her. It's a sin and immoral.
What happens after mistress tells wife?
I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends). There are different situations: a) If the mistress knows he is married; b) The mistress has no idea that he is married; c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you. b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife. WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.
If a married man and his ex mistress were friends b4 the affair and when the affair was discovered you guys stopped talking but u miss the friendship is it wrong to want to be friends again?
It's impossible to be friends anymore. The two of you betrayed his wife's trust. If he is back with his wife, she could never trust either of you and undoubtedly doesn't want to be in the same room with you. Too bad you didn't consider the loss before you crossed that line.
Would a married man have fantasies about being with his ex mistress when he stopped seeing her because he got caught cheating 4 mths ago?
depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..
Does a mistress end up marrying the married man she is seeing?
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
Why would a married man who cared about his mistress stop talking to her after getting caught cheating when they use to be friends?
As a man, I know exactly why. He has been ordered from his wife to never have contact with you again, in any way, shape , or form.....or else!
